loving get so tired!
By rose0822
@rose0822 (123)
Philippines
May 16, 2010 9:20pm CST
what is love??
love is like a two way road..
but when it becomes too tiring?
i love him for almost 7 years..we been through a lot of ups and down..
but suddenly..i felt too tired of loving him...
i felt in some way that he don't care anymore..
i get tired of giving without getting back in return...
i know i should not ask for return but its stupid..
whose person don't want to be loved?
of course all of us wanted to love and be loved..
but..
there is no permanent in this world..
this is not a happy ending story..
i don't know anymore if its exist..
too sad but true..
and it still hurt me..
be'coz i simply love him still..
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5 responses
@jenbrown77 (12)
• Philippines
17 May 10
hello? don't be sad, i had story like yours before. you're right loving is soo tired when you're giving yet no response back. but too sad if you still that way, stay with him. time, to move on pal, think about yourself first, love yourself above all. there's a time for you, and you can find the right one. I believe that if one door close other door open for you. just trust him and pray for it. i know he will respond just, right for you. thanks
@KathysLaw (77)
• United States
17 May 10
Is just normal for you to want to be love back. Love is most definitely a two way street and only a two way street being in love involves two people, therefore, two people most give in their 50% if that is not happening then that is not a relationship. Don't feel down, thankfully, we live in a world of technology start putting up profiles and talking to people.
And only take this advice if your absolutely sure that you don't want to put up with not receiving anything back. Some people are just selfish!
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
17 May 10
It is sometimes like that and I know you are not getting tired.You just need a break.I also feel the same way that I will say I am getting tired of him but then after trying to keep distance,It makes me miss him more and wanted to be with him more.Sometimes we need some distance to them just not to feel like in a cafe.There is no happy ending story.Struggles is always there and it is the big challenge to the both of you.If there is indeed a good connection.Surely it will be stronger.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
17 May 10
you must try remember back on your times romantic, Look for more time with asking visited the first location you meet her. That's when you can recall the romantic moment to express to her hearts content. To be more romantic, try to enjoy your favorite music you both. The True love never know the word bored and tired. Love has to be nurtured so that it keep and always grow
@alexysabelle (905)
• Philippines
17 May 10
loving never gets tiring... i assure you that, as what our Loving Creator did to all of us, who repeatedly sinned against Him, but still he forgives us and love us untiringly.
in my human perspective, loving still is not tiring, and i will not get tired of it. only our emotions and our heart wants to get rests for a while but NOT loving itself.
what i get from your post is you apparently get HURT, maybe because of his insensitivity, by actions and emotions invested but not reciprocated. by having an unmet expectations and feelings because in the end you still say that you "SIMPLY LOVE HIM STILL", see?
maybe, talk to him and sincerely tell him what you want. tell him that you are hurt, tell him that sometimes you seemingly get tired, tell him honestly how you feel. it helps. i know it requires a lot of courage and effort, but i guarantee its worth it.
good luck and God Bless