Having a Girlfriend requires more energy and tolerance!
By Fireheart
@Fireheart (683)
India
May 17, 2010 7:35am CST
i dont know if am correct since am just a teenager,i have a made a girlfriend and became a good friend with her,now things are getting bad,she asks me where i go and what to do and calls me at odd times, bossing me every time, and i thought something was wrong with her then again i made another girlfriend the same problem being sensitive and fragile(very angry for a small mistakes), is every girls in this world like this being bossy,tells you what to and what not.anyone can give me tips on how to manage girlfriends.
3 responses
@mario_stevens (6964)
• Malaysia
17 May 10
well, if you're still in your teens then you still have a long way to go my friend. i've past my teens a long time ago, and i still don't understand women
everyone goes through 'phases' in their relationship. the way you work through those phases with compromise, understanding and patience, will determine the future of your relationship.
don't be too quick to misjudge your partner. you might accidentally do or say something that you may regret later on. trust me, i'm speaking from experience on that one
i don't think she's bossy..she just wants to spend more time with you. if you're a smart man, you'll know what to do 



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@Fireheart (683)
• India
18 May 10
Well i have heard knowing a women is one of the biggest mysteries in this world, and i hope i dont do something stupid to loose my girlfriend, they are a part of my life that i cant let go off. Its seems like i have to play along as they say..lets see where it goes.if it is love it would be a great experience for me.anyway hope for the best.
@mario_stevens (6964)
• Malaysia
20 May 10
well, we all don't know if we're doing something stupid..unless we do it and someone gets angry over it
when it comes to women, i sometimes just go with the flow.. well, be yourself and enjoy the companionship. learn how to compromise and most importantly, learn how to be a good listener. that's what they want us guys to do most of the time 


@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
17 May 10
What you really need is to be more understanding and should have lots of patience. Not all girls are the same. But no matter what their personality is patience and understanding is a must.
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@Fireheart (683)
• India
18 May 10
patience is one thing i cant bear with,i want things quick and i want them bad. when it comes to girls am too soft and funny for them.
@med889 (5940)
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17 May 10
To have a girlfriend is not that complicated fireheart however I know that there are still girls who thinks that a boy should be a super man to do everything they tell them so I do not believe in this theory. I think a guy should be given enough freedom to be himself and to be with her too.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
17 May 10
surely i cant be a superman, but i could at least show affection to my girlfriend and i dont think i should agree with everything they say.
