Friends that text you all hours of the day and night.
By jugsjugs
@jugsjugs (12967)
May 17, 2010 6:19pm CST
I have a good friend that texts me late at night aswell as sometime during the day.I have another friend that texts me all hours of the day and night,so i have to turn my mobile phone off as this will wake the house hold up.I would not mind but when one of the friends text it is something silly that could wait until a dacent time of the day to text rather than 4am.I turn my phone off every night.
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@Rebeccarogers2010 (269)
• United States
18 May 10
I would tell the friend that there is only certian times of the day they need to text unless it was an emergancy that way you can leave your phone on during the night so if there is ever an emergancy you wont be non reachable
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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19 May 10
I think that she has a nerve to text anyone that time in the morning as like you say that you get woken up for no reason and things that she sends on a text can normally wait until the next day anyway.I am not the only friend that she do this too and i am not the only one that is getting fed up with it.
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@webzap (884)
• Philippines
19 May 10
Sure it is annoying hearing those sounds that come from your cell late at night or at the wee hour of the morning. It is only fair to have it turned silent or put it off during these times so nobody will be disturbed or robbed of their sleep. Better yet, talk to your friend not to send those text that can wait until the next day. Emergency calls or texts is an exception, of course.
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@lindsiko (355)
• United States
19 May 10
I have a couple of friends who do the same thing. My problem is that I use my phone as my alarm to get up for work in the morning, so I listen to the text alerts when they come late at night. You could probably try silencing the text message alerts for individual people on your phone.
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@Brook909 (110)
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19 May 10
It's really annoying.but cus the texters are your friends,so as their good friend,I think you ought to text them or call them or tell them directly:"if there is no something urgent,please don't disturb me during my rest time",and specify the rest time period,for example "10 pm-7a.m".by the way ,if the messages texters are not all of your friends,you'd better set your phone silent than turn it off.my opinion.
and a question for you:what did you mean by" wake the house hold up"?
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@janry_boang (2)
• Philippines
19 May 10
It simply means that they remember you.
Even at the wee hours of the night they still have time to text you.
Some of my friends do that too, but when they stopped, i kinda missed it.
Especially now that we seldom see each other.
Just be thankful that they exist, and if it annoys you, tell them (or text them) frankly. They may have a reason or two why they do that.
@fit4lifein07 (719)
• United States
19 May 10
I would just have a talk with that friend and tell he/she that it is distracting you and to only text message you when necessary or during certain times of days. It can be expensive if you do not have a text messaging plan also! I am sure your friend will understand mines did when I had a discussion with her.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 May 10
my wife has friends who are like that, but i can understand that for some of them are abroad and has different time there than what we have here. but she silent her phone so she wont be waking our son up, or if she is asleep then it wont wake her up. but she reads it all in the morning. it is true, that can wait when we wake up rather than wee ours in the morning.
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
18 May 10
hi jugsjugs,
i do not have that type of friends,when ever they need they will talk to me,but most they are not using the text,there is no that situation come to me to switch off my mobile phone till now,i am using two with double sim cards phones,first of all i am having less friends,have a nice day
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 May 10
I only had a cellphone for two years and in that period of time I never text or opened a text. When I would go to sleep at night the phone would be shut off. I'm glad I got rid of the phone because it was giving me alot of pain in my head on the side that I would hold the phone. Please becareful using your cell phone. I honestly don't think they are healthy for us. Texting alone maybe ok. They did claim today though that 30 minutes or more on a cell phone in a day can eventually lead to a brain tumor.
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@seventhblue (104)
• Philippines
18 May 10
That's so annoying. Just don't reply. They'll get tired. HAHAHA.
@DummyBlog (379)
• Pakistan
18 May 10
Thats great! You have someone who really thinks about you all the time! You haunt a mind!! Don't you think its great?? I think its awesome! :)
You may proceed n tell him/her in a very good way n let him/her know but beware not to hurt the his/her feelings!! :)
@SViswan (12051)
• India
17 Feb 11
8 months back, 6-7 of my high school friends met for the first time in years despite living in the same city for 10 years!! We hadn't seen each other since high school and as you can imagine we were all very excited. We made a mail group (text group, if you please) and would text each other almost each day with how our day went (texting is free and we get to text all of them at the same time). One of the girls is a doctor and she has weird hours....and someone or the other was texting at some point of the day. It got to the point where I was glued to my cell phone all day...either texting or reading. So, I kept the ringer for message notifications off and would check only when I am free.
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
18 May 10
If it were me, I would tell these friends not to text me at certain hours of the day or night. That is, unless it's urgent. They might be good friends of yours but they need to think that you and your family might be asleep at these hours and that you wouldn't want to be disturbed. You can tell them in a tactful way that youall don't want to be disturbed. If they don't pay it any attention, I think you're doing the right thing by keeping your phone turned off at these hours. I keep my phone turned off at night.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
18 May 10
I have another solution to that problem. I don't have a cell phone, so no-one can text me at any time day or night. I can imagine how disrubtive that would be. It would probably be like getting a regular call at all hours of the night. It is really aggrivating when it is something dumb that could wait till you were awake.
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@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
18 May 10
if you don't want to take heed when it notifies, put your mobile phone on silent and never take it beside your bed. leave it outside the room. then you can read all the messages in the morning...
@champaign9497 (5)
• United States
18 May 10
I don't have that option my son works out of town at times and if he is working second shift he calls to let me know he made it home ok so the phone needs to be by me.
@charylady (419)
• Philippines
18 May 10
my friends and family know that i don't like receiving unnecessary (eg., jokes) text messages at odd hours and they respect my wish. so i can keep my cell phone on all the time; i know that if my phone rings in the middle of the night it's something important.
@champaign9497 (5)
• United States
18 May 10
I have told these two I don't like it because it wakes the house up and they just do not seem to care.
@snowqueen200802 (1463)
• United States
18 May 10
Hi jugsjugs, My daughter in law used to do that to me until I had a talk with her however that stopped because I don't have an cell phone any longer. I hope that it works out for you.
Snow
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