Insecurity Kills!

When I was going out with my boyfriend there were things which were beyond thinking, a man had once approach him to tell him that I'm a very bad girl and he should not be serious with me. Then a girl send me message in facebook to tell me that my boyfriend is just a flirt and he will leave me too. Some were even talking about us when we walk together so its better to avoid these people and this is what we did and today we are together for more than four years.

Just don't care about what people say and do what you have to do, this is what I do when these kind of things happen.

hi brylle just think you are dating the prettiest girl, and these people are so jealous and childish you just have to ignore their stupid meaness and go on and have fun. Why cannot these people find their own dates and as you say mind their own business? let them be forget their meanesses as it will come back some dad to nip them in the butt believe me.

You can't change that. People have always been like that. Even here in my place people are insecure and if they envy what you have they'll secretly hide their envy and pretend to be friends with you then slowly stab you at the back. People have their ways of making themselves feel better and, sadly, backstabbing and badmouthing is included in their ways. I'm not generalizing. I'm just saying there are people like that and this is true. If you want any advice, just ignore them. I've been in somewhat the same situation as you and that's what I did. I just ignored them and eventually they just vanished or went away or whatever.