Trust is the base of every relationship

Philippines
May 18, 2010 9:18pm CST
Trust is very important without this its hard to maintain relationship and could lead to break-ups. Whats the point of having a relationship if you keeps secrets to your partner right? SO every single secret good or bad must be shared to each other, even hurtful memories can be shared so your partner knows what to do. n_n
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• Atlantic City, New Jersey
24 May 10
Being totally and completely honest with the person in your life can be wonderful- or dangerous... My last relationship began over long conversations getting to know each other. Divulging things I had never told anyone - ever. And although it DID bring us closer- at least that is what I felt. It also made for a much uglier ending. My ex used the personal things I had shared with him to his advantage in arguments or even use it to start fights with me. So I think twice about sharing everything with anyone anymore :(
• Philippines
24 May 10
Aw well you have good reason not o trust a person.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
21 May 10
You are right, I think that trust is the single most important thing that you need to have to be able to maintain a relationship. When my relationship with my husband was new, there were some issues with trust between the two of us and that nearly led to us breaking up. However, we were able to talk through the conflict and it made our relationship stronger. Now, there are no issues of trust between the two of us and we have a very strong relationship.
• Philippines
21 May 10
Thats great communication and open-mindedness is part of trust.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
19 May 10
I agree with you blitz!! Trust is very important. Unhealthy relationships do not include trust and respect, which are very important parts of a family relationship, good friendship, etc. Without trust you would not be able to have confidence to share your feelings, emotions, and self with someone else. Trust means to believe. When you extend your trust to someone, it means that you have no doubt in your mind about the honesty, integrity and credibility of the other person.
@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
19 May 10
for me its trust and sharing is most important for a relationship.. u have to share ur feelings and everything.. so the trust gets stronger.. and the relationship too..
• Philippines
21 May 10
I agree n_n sharing is a good way to avoid misunderstandings n_n.
• United States
19 May 10
This is true, it is very important to have trust, ive been with my husband for almost three years, never woulda happened with out trust
• Philippines
19 May 10
Yes cause without trust we fight and quarrel a lot, but when we trust each other we understand why he/she is doing such stuff and the reason behind such things n_n.