How to handle with a friend who is always making noise
By corehearty
@corehearty (4)
China
May 18, 2010 11:17pm CST
Hi mylotters I have a friend .when we are togethe he always makes noise and i cannt endure it what should i do
6 responses
@galileo2008 (1170)
• Philippines
19 May 10
If my friend is so noisy that I could not stand it any longer of those loud noises he created, I guess I need to confront him right then and there. He must know that he's making a huge mistake of doing that because a lot of people would get irritated and annoyed, and is not good to listen to. He just have to know that, but I also make sure that I'll tell him in a friendly way.
@Roopjyoti (101)
• India
19 May 10
Tell him to do the noise again and Ask him to make a review on his activity. Let him know and watch himself how he is doing.
@med889 (5941)
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19 May 10
You just have to tell him bluntly that he is being too weird while making noises like this and if he continue then no one will like him though, some people do not know about their negative aspects until someone else tell them so you should be telling him how badly he is behaving.
@abitcurious (1422)
• Philippines
19 May 10
communication is really the key if you want to keep a relationship going.
have you tried to talk to your friend? Does she/he know that you have thing against lod noises? Maybe your choices are not obvious to him so he can't say for sure what your preferences are.
It is actually okay to share these things since these are the nuances that bonds your to your friend. You might get into a disagreement at first, but when it settles you would be thankful that you talked about it.