what age is the best age to get married?

Malaysia
May 19, 2010 2:46am CST
why some of the people getting married so early before age 20? but why some of the people getting married at the age of 30 years old? in our country, those who do not study with very high education would get married as young as 18 years old? but why for those who have high education will only get married at older age? is it because they want a better freedom before they get married? What is toughts?
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
22 May 10
Hi Jin_kamada, may be young guys are more romantic and more emotional. They fall in love easily once he is fascinated by someone who appeals his or her attention fully when at sight of. Young guys never bother much about other matters like money, education, etc, as long as they could get along together intimately. Whereas most of the well educated people are rather matured in thinking. They have much worry about their future and usually would plan nicely before getting married. When they come across any person they admire and both fall in love then, but they won't get married that fast. They enjoy their love affair freely. Without the tied up of family they can concentrate on their ambition and undertaking without any worry and burden. They would marry only when they consider that they have already reached their goal and can give their loved ones a happy family life. Of course I prefer the latter Take care and happy posting
• Malaysia
31 May 10
your answer seems like quite reasonable. youngster never seems to bother about their financial. It just the matter of romance.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
Jin_kamada, I was young and beautiful once.... Anyway in this modern world many things have changed a lot...and money talks in society. Money could create romantic like what we have seen in the movie, candle light dinner in high class restaurant, huge bouquet of fresh flowers, violin performance, setting of the fascinationg firework at the beach.... surely a young lady would fall in love with such romantic guy for sure and accept the few carats of diamon ring as well as gets married in her young age That's the main reason why nowadays people tend to marry after achieving stable financial strength.
@Grat15 (439)
• Singapore
19 May 10
I think it depens on individu respectively. Are they really ready, mentally, physically and financially of course. And also depands on local custom and culture. But, in my opinion, to get married we must also consider age of birth factor, for woman of course. And also age of our children later, when we can't be able to work anymore. So, i think men betwen age 25 to 35 years old and women with age 20 to 30 years old, is an appropriate age for marriage.
• Malaysia
19 May 10
i think i agree with you. but some how in US, there are a lots of people who like to get married after 40 years old. is it because they cannot find a perfect match or what? some of them do not want childern after getting married.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 May 10
It will depend on each individual's characteristic, financial strength and maturity. Some people become matured at young age and are being successful in their economy social and status. These people are the one that are suitable to marry at early age. However, there are lot of people who are forced to marry at young age because of having pre-marriage pregnancy . In today's society, people tend to get married at old age, because it's more comfortable to do so if we are having stronger financial strength and more matured thinking. Or else, we will regret for not enjoying freedom enough after our marriage. That's why we are seeing a lot of failure among couples who got married at early age.
• Indonesia
19 May 10
Many women who marry at a young age because his parents lives may not be sufficient to finance the school anymore, so the best way that they are married off their children. While women are highly educated tend to marry at an older age, either because they set high standards for the type of their partner. So in order to meet these criteria is not easy. That's why they are so long to find a spouse. If you want to get married, make sure first that you have been able to assume responsibility you will receive in the future. Optimal in my opinion about 28 years and over.