What is your first priority love or studies??

Obviously that guy does not love you if he does not want to wait. I mean he is just treating a girl like an option, it reflects on how he respond on it. Seems that he has so many options like he does not courting only one girl but too many chicks. When I was student I never had a relationship nor never been in love with somebody else because I am really concern with my academics especially I have low grades so why would I entertain someone else in my life? Nevertheless I know it for myself that I am not yet matured enough to face a relationship or to have serious commitments. Other than that I don't like an idea that I have to play as what others are doing like fling and so on.

In the situation that I am in at the moment I put my love life first. I understand that this probably is not the best or wisest decision for many reasons. One being that we may not end up being together and the other being that it is not helping my studies at all :/ but honestly, I can not help it. I guess my heart just out thinks my brain if that makes sense at all. Like I KNOW I should probably spend more time with my studies, but I end up doing stuf with the woman whom I love instead. I find myself in these predicaments more often than one would think and it is kind of starting to drive me crazy. I love this girl more than anything and I really do think that I could end up marrying her! I think that is what keeps me going for her instead o my studies. Sorry for boring you with my personal story, but I thought I would share my personal experience/feelings at the moment for some reason; I can't explain it. Wel, I can only hope for the best for you and your lover! Happy mylotting!

Hello hanizah, When I was a student, my priority has always been studies first. There was love along the way. I told the person we could be friends until we both complete our A levels. And he agreed. We are still together till this day.

Obviously studies is the first priority always. If you ignore it,your entire life will be miserable as you don't get another chance. Love is important too,but life gives you enough chances to love somebody.Moreover love can interfere with studies so it's important to not think too much about love unless one has reached a high enough level of education.

I have already completed my studies but if you ask me about choosing, it would be difficult – I would like to go for both but if it’s love or study. I will go with Study. Love will disappear if I have no money. Love is very important but other needs are not very less important. I may have a very good looking girlfriend but no job; she will not love me for long without money. We need job and that is possible only if you score well in study.

Based on experience, I suggest to everybody to prioritize their studies. Though I was able to finish my studies after getting married, there are lots of opportunities that I have to ignore due to responsibilities.

You are very clever and you are absolutely correct. If he loves you, waiting for you to finish your studies should NOT be a sacrifice...it should be a natural thing in your relationship. If you give up your studies, there will be no going back. NOW IS THE TIME for you to put everything into your education so that you may reap the rewards in a few years. That's the most sensible thing for these times. Good luck.

if I am still a student I still choose my studies. When I was still a student I have so many crushes, but I don't go in relationship. I want to finish my degree and help my family, that is the only thing I had in mind. I keep thinking that i love is really for me, then that person will be willing to sacrifice and help me to finish my study, Instead of forcing me to have relationship. As you said true love waits.

Its obvious.. you ask if you are still a student? then it should be your studies.. coz if not then you will not be a student anymore.. dont study and just love and love.. But seriously, it depends on how you handle things. For me, you can go for both as long as you know how to balance everything.

I don't have to think twice to answer this question. I am not a student now, but when I was a student, studying was my first priority. Nothing could replace studies. I don't think love matters a lot during school time. I was very sure that love should not have taken over my studies. As a student, I thought that there were many nice guys in this world and I didn't necessarily need to find a nice guy in school. There is a lot of time after school for that.

I think the answer is already obvious. If you care about your future, then you put studies as your top priority. If not, then choose love otherwise. What I mean to say is that love is always there, while being given the opportunity to mold your future comes rarely. In my case, it has been inculcated in my mind to put studies first before getting in to romantic relationships. And I believe that true love waits. So, getting into commitment is not a race. Take a look at our society now. A lot of teenagers, or those who haven't finished school yet, already engage in PMS which results to early pregnancy. Whichever angle you look at it, it's definitely not right. You can also enter in to a relationship while studying but make sure that you won't get carried away with it to the point that it will already affect your studies. In everything that we do, it's always important to weigh things.

hello,from my angle of view,maybe, we can do both.why not? coz ,it is very hard to encounter someone special to you (what's more rare is that you are special to him/her at the same time )of course,it is also very important to get focus on your study, sooooo,we get a dilemma?Nope,because,you can handle the relationship between the study and love,and keep them in balance,it's all up to you.

of course ,study .nightmare learn more ,then you have the preparation for a happiness .happiness is always built on the basis of finance .

My opinion is, you should know to balance both. But make sure you give priority to your studies. Without a proper job, your love will not become a reality. As a boy, no girl will be willing to marry a jobless guy. So, make sure you do your studies well and find a good stable job. In parallel to studies there is no problem of continuing your love affair.

When I was still a student, I always make sure that my studies come first before anything else. I was very aggressive back then, so competitive (like comparing my scores with my classmates') and I always make sure that I pass every exams that I took. Now I realized I must have a very boring life as a student, I didn't have a night life, and not time for love. The positive side is, I did not get any distractions and I graduated right on time. Now that I'm done with my academe, I think it's proper for me to have somebody to share my feelings with.

My first priority was always a study, and will always be. Study is very important. Once you make your career, one can achieve all, also love in life. But if you can't make your career, no one will love you for that. I request all the student, choose study over love and your love is always there for you. I know the choice between having a career or making time for love is an extremely personal and individual decision. But my choice would always go to study and career.

For me that's good your opinion is so keep up the good work.

Good for you that you chose to wait rather than risk your studies...Love is just around the corner they say, and yes if the guy really loves a girl, he would definitely wait and be patient. I think all students should prioritize their studies because it is much more important at the moment...

Well,if i can meet someone who i really love when i am still a student, i will try my best to strike a balance between love and studies. It is not an easy job to strike a balance, but i will try . i will study hard with the person i love to pursue our dreams.

It should be studies but unfortunately nobody want to see his/her love upset and anger with him/her. So no days Love is our priority. But its depend on person what is his/her interest. now regarding to question my priorities are both.