Do U Loose UR Temper On Mylotters ??? R U Prefer to Stay Calm ???
By sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
India
May 19, 2010 9:37am CST
Mylot is one place where we come accross funny ones whose brains are filled with loads of humour---
And there are folks who annoy responders and hosts in discussions---they never accept your point of view.
Ever lost your temper on any mylotter---Unfortunately i did on One Mylotter(very first one in my 8 months of stay in here) a week ago
I feel sorry now---She is working hard to stand by her self lol and had enough of crawling in here -----I shouldn't have lost my temper on a "small weird baby"
I have seen some arguing,yelling in discussions---Would you try to control your anger or prefer to exhibit in your comments?
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42 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Feb 11
I've been a mylot member for quite some time and though there have been a few times that there have been things that other people have said that will hurt my feelings or hurt my pride, I really cannot think of a single time that I have lost my temper with another mylotter. The reason that this is the case is because of the fact that I realize that all people are entitled to have different opinions and you can't really fight over opinions.
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@rebelann (112740)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Dec 20
I agree. It's also my prerogative to read what's written here so I simply choose not to engage with people who might not be pleasant.
@beaniefanatic13 (5076)
• Grand Junction, Colorado
20 May 10
I don't believe that I have lost my temper, but have gotten very frustrated a time or two. I really enjoy mylot and sometimes need to vent about something and usually can find a topic relating to my irritabilty, since there are so many discussions to choose from.
I really don't like to see those discussions that get out of hand just because some people can't listen to another point of view.
Happy Mylotting!!!
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@rebelann (112740)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Dec 20
It's your choice to read what you want. If you don't like what someone writes don't read it.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
19 May 10
Loosing temper on others in the virtual world sounds silly but I have to admit I can be an ogress at times when people start personal attack on me and name calling. I couldn't content my anger when these people take matters into their own hands and start hauling abusive words and making mockery of one's intelligence. This is stupidity which deserve the lashing of a spiky tongue. Otherwise I am quite a sober-minded person with angelic nature if unprovoked.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Angellic nature---Its raining angels in mylot and but they're too old for me ---its sad that some try harder to prove their point in here at any means which can disturb you
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
19 May 10
I don't lose my temper anywhere. I'm not even sure that I've got one to lose.
I was in a bad incident offline a few years back when someone was wild at me because I wouldn't lose my temper now matter how hard he tried. I was on the sofa just listening and not arguing back and he got so wild that he was about to throw his slipper at me. I just kept on staring and just an instant before he let go of it, he realised the damage that he would have caused
I do the same online. No point in arguing. As soon as tempers start heating up and one or other starts raising their voice and harsh words begun spurting out, something is broken that can never be repaired
You want to argue? Ok, go ahead... then we get to make up later right?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
19 May 10
I'm doing too many things at once maybe?
You were talking about your weird baby - I didn't even know that you had any family
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
I would have started a family if every thing went fine with that weird baby
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Ohh this NUT suffers from Short Term Memory loss as well
One more doubt Miss Diana-----I think i was talking about Relationships then where did this Elationships popped in from
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
19 May 10
I just lost mine with you, but the brat that you are you never realize!
Kidding. I dont think I lose temper here as much as I do in real life. I may get into second gear for a couple of posts but not for long. :)
Actually, it is easier to put my point across rationally. And since emotions are not involved that is easier. So losing temper is not that easy out here. What do you think?
I did tease one girl and I felt so sorry. In all I had somewhat an argument with a. TT, (we continue to be good friends) b. Misterwit (He is weird and still a good friend) c. Vanillaray (I think she didnt take it on chin), d. Owlwings (I dont know the status e. One more lady I really dont remember her name. No - I dont think I am cut up with them, or they are cut up with me. :) Either they are very forgiving, or I am very shameless.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
19 May 10
Actually, there are a few more. :) But I dont feel any anger or animosity! I feel I can express my views and may be get them to see my point of view.
I have also changed my opinions, mind you Sunny!
Thea is a great sparring partner for that, because she understands that I like it that way. :) I like people standing up for what they believe in to be right. :) I like to be logically convinced or forced to come up with a logical solution. :)
I dont think they would hate me in anyway! :) We are friends. :) We just differ in opinion. :)
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
That seems to be a lot---you gathered a batallion.I would look forward for that moment when all those decide to take you ON
It would be so much fun lol---i never exchange comments as i do with you guyz so there are minimal chances for me to loose my temper and exhibiting it on boards would be too far
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@alternateshady (51)
• Philippines
19 May 10
Stay Calm, when I go to relax and play online games, I usually encounter people fighting or trashtalking me if their really angry at me I think I won because I'm at home laughing or probably smiling and their in their home raging. Who wins? I say I did. :D
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
haha people go crazy whilst playing those online games with friends---they shout like hell---dont know if they're trying to scare you
Welcome to Mylot and enjoy your stay in here
@HADDOWZ (1469)
•
19 May 10
I prefer to stay cool and calm whilst spending time here in myLot. Why should I spoil my day by getting annoyed or angry with what someone else has written, especially if I have never met them. Everyone is allowed to have their own personal opinions on and subject or topic of discussion, so just let them get on with it. Live and let live. If something annoys you so much just move on to another discussion, life's to short.
Stay cool, and have a great time here in myLot.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Okies you seem to have taken me seriously---i was making fun of one of my friends in here i call her small baby lol thats it---we never had such a big argument though .I prefer to move on to another or stay calm than to poke someone who are quiet capable of ruin your entire day
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 May 10
Dadgum it why are you asking such a question?
OK seriously, I have almost never lost it with anybody. Usually when I do, it's because somebody is attacking a friend. But most of the time when I'm mad, I wait until I've calmed down a bit before replying. Cus if I don't, well you don't want to know...
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
So you would show your true colors when your friend is being verbally abused
I wonder which color you would be ---Red , Green like the Simpsons haha
And coming to the last thing---i wouldnt mind knowing it
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Ewwwww Purple----we aren't talking about your favourite color Dawn
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 May 10
you were supposed to be a femalien then how come you fall under Angel,Devil and human categories
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
19 May 10
I would never even think about losing my temper on here. Who told you that I did? When I find out who it was that told you such a malicious and awful lie about me I will punch their lights out!
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
19 May 10
Hey, I can still hold my own pretty well in a fight, although I do admit that I should start hitting the weights a little more regularly again. Lifting and playing with my little one is a great workout, though, and not only is it a lot more fun than lifting silly old weights but also it gives me a pretty good workout. So who is this big guy, anyway? I am not eskerred of him!
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
haha you found a innovative way to complete your work outs---i pity the little one though as she replaced the weights in your hands
She might want to yell at you------ "Mommmmmie Put me down "
The big man is well ahead of you and can take you on suddenly from any direction---so toughen your Muscles and yeahh those funny ones too
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Are you ready to take that big Guy ???
he can lift you up and hurt you mildly
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
yup i remember that post related to terrorist ---he's gone crazy and you never find me doing that---i would never argue with someone---i prefer to stay calm than to prove myself over them
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Cant wait for that auspicious moment lol---when we are gonna fight
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
23 May 10
Mylot is a wonderful site, we are all friends and like family members, till today i have not shown my anger on any member.. some times i don't like some responses or some comments, i tackle very wisely, life is short, why quarrel here?
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always.
Cheers.
Prof
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
19 May 10
Mylot is the place where you can espresso anger and also excuse persons - it is a play of words.
Just words which are very powerful and makes wonders.
Many good members are there here who by their soft and loving words go deep into others hearts.
I do not lose my temper nor get angry but use soft and loving language.
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
19 May 10
hehe...i know what you mean
i almost lost my temper a few days ago...i think. but i managed to stay all cool and calm i retreated into my place of 'zen' and took my necessary deep breaths.. and then my uncanny knowledgeable brain took over my wondrous fingers and started typing like there was no tomorrow.. i'm sure i didn't sound angry, but then that other user seems to be a bit silent already..
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Where did you find it then ?
Its difficult to find the temper of the weird ones
The other one knew this so he thought being silent would do the trick
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 May 10
*Sunny Slips his Tongue again and revealed the truth about Mario *
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
20 May 10
me? weird? hahaha... for this month, i'll go with 'strange'
@TexLadyPj (1328)
• United States
19 May 10
I have not lost my temper, I have the responsibility to choose the discussions I want to enter. If I allow another mylotter to make me angry or loose my temper than I believe that I am not acting as an adult. The emotions I display at mylot are my responsibility, not the other person.
@TexLadyPj (1328)
• United States
19 May 10
I wouldn't they are a better person, that could be offensive...Just someone who realizes that the virtual world is different than the real word, either inside or outside my home.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
19 May 10
Yeah its said that one who controls his senses is a better human being than others who end up showing their temper in wrong places .As far as we try it harder it does no harm to us
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 May 10
It doesnt make any sense to loose our anger in this world---all it does is you end up yelling if we take it too personal
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 May 10
hi sunnycool I keep mytemper as I do not respond to political discussions , and religious discussions as I have been there and got thoroughly trounced and flamed. I did not lose my temper I just hit the exclamation point and let my lot look at it and do whatever they wanted
life is too short to stress out with some people here. I dont like to fight with people, I am too old to do that and prefer to have fun here and even laugh occasionally.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
20 May 10
there were few times i really lost my temper with some co-mylotters. but most of the time, i just leave the box and forget about the conversation. the last time it happened to me, we ended in a heated discussion. but later on, we get back to normal conversation again and just forget what happened between us.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 May 10
I think every one have lost their temper atleast once in here---after this world is filled with good and bad so its pretty common to come accross bad ones too.What matters the most is how clever we are in avoiding them---arguing with them doesnt make sense and we tend to realise about it after the yelling and cursing is completed lol
@allknowing (135331)
• India
20 May 10
So far I have had bad experience with only one person who has been going round collecting sympathy about something I never said. When I saw how the whole thing was concocted I decided to stay away and not get into 'you are wrong, I am right' kind of a wordy warfare. Honestly such arguments are not worth spending time on. I just keep away from such people. I deal with those with whom I am comfortable and there is 'plenty of fish in the ocean to choose from'
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 May 10
It wouldnt be so wise to spend our time arguing with such persons---we should search for the fun than to work hard to prove those nuts wrong.Mylot has more than two lakh fishes lol so we would come accross our golden fish one day or the other
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
22 May 10
Hahaha, you almost had me, thats one reason i sometimes refuse myself responding to your discussions, but i do LK at them from time to time.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
22 May 10
Woooow you mean i yelled at you ???
I dont even remember and cant believe that i did that to you--you must be kidding me right
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
22 May 10
Actually i dont get that one reason which stops you from responding to my discussions
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
22 May 10
You did not yelled, even if you yelled i would not hear it coz i dont wear my headset when i am here in mylot. I accidentally mispelled a word, and i so just want to delete the thread.
@candyfairy21 (2039)
• Philippines
22 May 10
Hi guys, I just got mad at someone in here a few hours ago and I really got mad because she was downright rude and keeps hitting below the belt and she called me defensive when I gave her a piece of my mind. She even called me "people like you" lolz you can check my latest discussion though that I kinda yelled at her and lost my cool. Well some people have lots of free time and some have to allocate time for everything, can't they respect boundaries and difference? If you want to post discussions be courteous and polite even when you disagree.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
22 May 10
I have over forty responses for this post and i didnt come accross any mylotter who makes it to my post after loosing his/her anger lol.so how would you react if i annoy you as well
Okies mylot is composed of good and bad ones---if you want to have some piece of mind then better you keep those bad ones away---it works great that way