breaking a promise

@patersh (120)
Philippines
May 20, 2010 4:23am CST
hey! im just wondering if you would be angry if sombody made a promise to you and then break it. would u be angry? or what?
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5 responses
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
20 May 10
I take promises seriously. I don't think I could handle people who can't keep a promise. But, if a person is someone that everyone knows can't keep a promise, then perhaps I couldn't care less nor would I even try to think of expecting him/her to do as he/she promises to do. I could honestly take into heart this topic because I recently felt being betrayed by a person I truly loved. You see, he promised that we'd meet again next month, only to talk about it the other night and he has forgotten that it was next month and not in July! I was so expecting him next month, couldn't focus with work because of my excitement, only to be told the other night that he thought that our plans was in July. Anyway, everything is fine now, but I would not be the same if we didn't get to talk about it. I for sure wouldn't be okay about it.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
20 May 10
Thanks for the best response mark!
@patersh (120)
• Philippines
21 May 10
no problem. i like your response really.
@rhinarea (311)
20 May 10
It does depend on the situation. you just have too look on each others side and listen.
@patersh (120)
• Philippines
21 May 10
well, youre right. but when it happens, you will forget to listen to the other side. well, that is what happened to me.
@mtvmtv (600)
• India
23 May 10
Hi, Generally,any body will get angry while somebody breaks the promise.But we must not act without thinking.We should try to understand the reasons due to which promise had to be broken.If there are real and genuine reasons then we should forgive that.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 May 10
Sweetie, i won't be angry, i would be freaking mad and then i will get even. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 May 10
Yes sweetie, but i wil go so far as to bite that finger. I hate when people do that.
@LotRowena (158)
• Philippines
21 May 10
First I must accept that promises are said to be broken. IF someone makes a promise to me and then breaks it, the initial and normal reaction is that I will for sure get mad or get angry. But, I will evaluate and understand also why he or she wasn't able to fulfill or to do his/her promise to me. Everything has a reason. But for someone who have the habit of giving promises and not do it, that might be PD already, lol - Personality Disorder.