love or money?
By patersh
@patersh (120)
Philippines
10 responses
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 May 10
Hi patersh, I feel really sad after reading your discussion, for at the moment I no longer have any chance to make such decision I had made the decision before my marriage long ago. Among all I went to the one who was not rich but had a professional job finally. I found the most important thing was we could get on so well with each our. We felt so comfortable as well as relaxed even we didn't have any heart to heart talk all the time when we were together.
I'm glad that I had made the correct decision that moment for we are still staying together happily and intimately at the moment. Our kid is a grown up adult and has his own house and work in the adjacent state. We have considerable leisure time and could enjoy our happy and desirable life style freely now. I have no regrets at all though I don't live a luxury life.
Take care and happy posting!
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
21 May 10
Love. If you marry for money you will be unhappy. When you run out of money what do you have? Nothing. Your relationship is over. But if you marry for love then you will be together no matter what.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
21 May 10
wow, it difficult answer for me. I think, surely life be better with love. You can do many thing for your love and you get happy easier. But you know 'money' can be big problem in family because life need money. So, love can be disappear when the economy of your family has be problem. Other side, money can make love grow. So, I choose the second. LOL.
@nanangriyanto (183)
• Indonesia
21 May 10
I think someone will happy when she was married with love each other. And I think money will follow when we have spirit and enthusiasm doing job.
@LotRowena (158)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Honestly, I will marry the one I love even if he don't have much money or no money at all. We can make our own money in the process. We can work, there are many resources we can use, there would always be job for us, people who don't have money are those who don't like to have it.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 10
love or money. if love and money we can get it all, happiness must be ours. but if only one we have, we would still be happy even if happiness is not perfect. if you choose love, happiness, surely we can get, but can not deny, we also need money to survive.
@Patzi_anele (132)
• Philippines
21 May 10
actually it depends, if the person you love is not that determined for personal and financial growth, if a person you love does not love you back, if the person you love is lazy then i would rather go to the person who has money who also loves me back, who is hardworking earning for the family, and who assures me that he will ge eager to love me more than i can give.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 May 10
I choose the one i love. She doesn't have to be rich for me to marry her. I can always get a job to earn money. I don't wanna live a rich life with a wife i don't love.
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
21 May 10
I choose love, because we can make money for both of us, it is up to us, we can look for a job, business or even earn money online right, you can't buy love with money, but you can earn more money when your in love,