should i decide for final decission ?
By Drew Lazaro
@mine2008 (107)
Philippines
May 22, 2010 2:02pm CST
my girlfriend have another boyfriend and the worst thind is i know. she always telling me that he never contact it anymore but i found many times that she call him when i am not around. we discuss this problem 3 times and she done it again should i give up and let her free or i will keep fighting even i am about to loss the battle? for now i am down i need some friends to come up. thanks for listening
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5 responses
@thunderstar17 (323)
• United States
22 May 10
I am going to be completely honest with you about my opinion of the situation you are describing. Obviously, trust is a big issue in the relationship. With out the foundation of trust there can be no type of relationship, not even a friendship. Until she is willing to be honest and talk to you calmly about it...I would say to move on. You need to find some one who will be honest with you and will respect your feelings instead of ignoring your emotions for her own enjoyment.
@mine2008 (107)
• Philippines
22 May 10
thanks for the message i really appreciate it. for now i am not looking for someone maybe i just need space to think. thanks thanks thanks have a nice day
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Dec 10
Love is all trust and belief, if trust is not there then it is no more love. If GF does this, he breaks the trust of true love. So there is no forgiveness or hatred as GF failed to deserve the true love.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
28 May 10
Hi Mine2008,
It sounds as if you really care a lot about this girl. The problem is, do you care about the girl that you "thought" she was or the girl she is showing you she really is? What I am seeing here is a girl who has lied to you not just once but several times and those are only the times that you are aware of. The trust is already broken. Is that what you want? Even if she stopped calling this other guy, would you in your heart believe it or would you always wonder and worry about when the next time will be? I know it hurts a lot when someone we trust betrays us. No one can tell you what to do but only you can decide how much you are willing to put up with.
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
25 May 10
well, here's my take on it. if you keep fighting to save a relationship, maybe it's not worth the fight anymore. if she keeps doing it, maybe she's not into you anymore. i think you have to talk to your girlfriend and make her choose who she really wants. i'm not saying just let her go, but if that would always be the case, you're just gonna get hurt all the time.
@mizzk1 (56)
• United States
15 Jul 10
My advice to you would be to let her be free. I wouldn't call it giving up. Because it takes a strong person to go through with letting someone go that you love. If you love her then the best thing to do is let her go and be free. And if you two are meant to be....trust me...she will be back. It might take some time but if you 2 are destined to be. You will be!!
