True Friends??? :(
By Sbates
@Sbates (5)
United States
May 22, 2010 2:07pm CST
I'm about 98% sure my friend posted a secret about me on www.SecretsINeverTold.com. It said something about how she's just friends with me for my money. I guess I'm not sure it's her post...but it's something that's mind on my mind for a while. I feel like she might be using me. Should I confront her and ask if it was her that posted the secret?
4 responses
@Jaluke (676)
• United States
22 May 10
I wouldn't confront her because if it's not her that could cause major issues in the friendship since you're questioning her trust. Is there anything in the posting that would make you think that it is her or is it just a feeling that you're getting? Otherwise it may just be you worrying about it for nothing.
@maxito100 (150)
• Argentina
23 May 10
i think there must be something on her ways that made u think shes more interested in ur money than in ur friendship. so. lets take some time to review what u think it made u think or feel that way about ur friend. asking ur fiend if she was the one who posted that comment on that site would be a lil stupid i think. u should ask her ur real question and that is if shes really interested on being ur friend as u ended up thinking she might only care about ur money.
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
22 May 10
I wouldn't confront her.It would hurt you more if this is truth, and it will hurt her if this is not truth.I see that you don't trust her and it's not a good sign for a friendship.Have you had similar doubts before?What makes you think she could do this?You should find another way to test your friendship.Like spend a few days without seeing each other,even writing messages.To see if you feel sad being apart.
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
22 May 10
If I were in your situation, I will not confront her about it but I will also keep it as a secret that I doubt something about her. I will still be her friend but I will make sure she will not be using our friendship or me for her own interest. beware of your best friends because they might turn out to be your worst enemy.