How to Love and Like Difficult People
By lowlycook
@lowlycook (265)
Philippines
May 22, 2010 7:43pm CST
I find it easier to love difficult people than like them. Liking them means you wanna be with them all the time. Loving them means you forgive them and accept them as they are--and then see them around some time. Well, loving and liking them is the best thing, but I believe it all starts with liking them--and it's the hardest part. I guess you'd have to have some self empowerment first, like I do by first getting inspiration from posting on my website. It gives me joy enough to face difficult people.
5 responses
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
23 May 10
It is easy to like difficult people only if they are not living under one roof with us. But if they become a part of your house you will find it much easier to hate them. I tried 24 years to accept my sister as she was, but it was impossible. Also I know there will never be peace between us. And three days ago, my mom bluntly told me my sister didn't like talking to me and so I shouldn't try. Then she came in the room and said yes. So I am not talking to her anymore. You don't wanna live with my sister. Outsiders love hating her. Me and my dad know why!
@KathysLaw (77)
• United States
23 May 10
Liking difficult people is very if not extremely hard! But, not impossible. Practice practice!
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@charmlenile (387)
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10 Aug 10
Liking difficult person is just liking a very thick wall they said but once you get there attention and there likes time will change for you and them.
