What Would you feel, if you know that your EX is dating your bestfriend?

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 22, 2010 10:04pm CST
Ouch! still you are attached to him,still you cannot removed him from your mind and heart.It's hard for you to let go.But one day while walking in the mall you see your ex and your bestfriend also having a date,happy together and holding each others hand.Will you still considered her as a friend?what will be your first moved?She did not told you anything.
14 responses
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
23 May 10
I'll feek like inviting them to a dinner..... Then put poison on their food. he he he.. How would be fist off?
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
24 May 10
Ha ha ha you will put poison in their food?You will kill them? Don't do that it's kinda done by a loser.Anyway at time I know all the pain will just fade away,it's maybe for us how to do it. Maybe you can just curse them by saying....I know your relationship will end up to, when that time come, I will surely laughed at you,and with bended knees you will ask for my love again.Lol!
• Philippines
23 May 10
I'd feel hurt if that happens to me. I'm not gonna forgive my bestfriend for doing that. But the thing is i don't have a bestfriend and frankly i don't trust all my friends so it's all good for me.
• United States
23 May 10
I think I'd be ticked off with both of them. I feel like friends shouldn't date each others ex girlfriends/boyfriends and I also feel its pretty low of the ex to try to pursue a relationship with your friend. Then the gears in my head would start turning and I would ask myself "Was there always some sort of attraction between the two of them?" "Did they ever mess around why we were still together and now that we've broken up they feel its okay to go public with their relationship?"
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
23 May 10
If ever that will happened to me,then I saw then very sweet,maybe my eyebrows will be on the 13th floor.Well,in your mind maybe they have already that mutual feelings the time that you and your bf still on.
@wythe25 (96)
• United States
23 May 10
I think your friend should have talked to you first, but either way, it is your ex and they have the right to date whoever they want. And you can't control whoever your friend dates either. Even if your friend had told you, you could have said no, but that doesn't mean it would have stopped them. It's hard, but it's part of life.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Yes its a part of life,but the first thing you will feel when you saw that scenario is you will be hurt.Maybe when time comes that the girl already coped up the break up,that's the time she can say...I wish them luck! and hoping that my bestfriend will not be exchange to her bestfriend also...lol!
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
23 May 10
She's (I'm a guy) already my ex so it really doesn't matter what she want to do. She can date anyone including my bestfriend.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Your are in a liberated world.Can I ask you,did you try broken up to a girl?In just an hour you already recover the break up?Wow how we wish all of us humans are like you.Lol! The scenario is, the girl is still on the process of moving on,when she saw his bestfriend and her ex bf.Maybe if you don't feel bad what you see,thats a proof that you don't love the guy your with before.
• United States
23 May 10
umm..that is not a best friend. she should have come to you first before starting to date him. to make sure you were over him. i feel bad for you. i have never been in your situation, but it has to hurt really bad. you need to get your best friend go on a friend date and talk. don't yell. just talk and see what's going on and if you can figure something out. hang in there. and do your best to move on. because no matter what happened life goes on!!!
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
23 May 10
I'd feel sorry for my best friend because my ex is a total _ss!!!!!!! And I may feel like, WTF cuz why would my "best friend" do that in the first place, for a number of reasons??
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
23 May 10
Maye I would care deep down but in reality i would not show it and it would seem i do not care, make she be with who ever she wants to be with. I might still love her but i wont mess her love life because of my actions. Its her problem now. She will take care of it.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Hi elle!! I have been in that situation and I also went out with them. They were really holding hands and kissing in front of me. It would really be awkward at first. It's just that you could not be someone's hindrance to happiness am very happy for them. They already broke up now. Were still friends... Awkward but fine and you can live with that.
• Ghana
23 May 10
Now this is a very interesting question. Personally I think I would be bothered at the initial stages but as time goes on I will end up getting used to it. Also it also depends on the conditions or situations which led to the break up of you and your ex.
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
23 May 10
well if you really love him/her you should be happy for her, and if he/she chooses your friend you should be more happy why, because you know the guy that he love, you know that he/she will be safe in you friend. but if you know that your friend is a bod boy or bad girl then that's the time you may stop their relationship,
• Indonesia
23 May 10
I will mengaggap as a close friend in the past
@rhinarea (311)
23 May 10
I would say that it depends on the situation i have been with my ex and why we broke up, if it was a unanimous decision of both of us to have a separate lives it would be fine for me for him to date my best friend, but if the situation was my ex leave me to be with my best friend, i will declare war! i guess it would be very painful and i think i will never ever talk to them.
• Bulgaria
23 May 10
Hm... I'd feel dirty. if that happened, I would not forgive my friend. To my joy, that never happened. different people different views :D