I hate myself because i loved him so much....

i am really sorry for you. But think this way, its good that atleast now you understood what kind of person that guy was! He never cared for you, Lady. If he cared for you he wouldn't have told you that he is okay you marrying someone else. He would have married you for sure, if he loved you for sure. Atleast, that's what i would have done! Anyway, you can never force someone to love you or marry you. If he doesnt want to marry you, leave him. He doesn't deserve a lady like you. So, forget him, erase him from your memory. He is past! Just forget him and marry a good guy, who would understand and love you :) All the Best!

Pls stop crying, I know how hard it is to give your effort and didnt get anything. Just be patient. Every good deeds you did was a blessing to him and you will be blessed more than he is. So wait for the right time that you know that person will be yours. It hurts that much. But I think girl, you are going to be a very lucky woman someday to have found someone better and wiser and everything you expect so.

Why are you so willing to throw yourself at the feet of a man who cares not a bit about you? Such an irresponsible man isn't worth your love at all. Why should you sacrifice for his needs? As a female, you should be taken care of by a man who loves you dearly. If you still have the common sense and dignity, leave him right now and find your true love. He is not the right one for you.

oh god..please..dont give everything until your sure.. i am also a man. i know what a man need..for 6 years is the long time your spend.. so now..just try to do something to release the problem like go travel.. i am very sure your can learn something good for you. your must remember.. people do not know your much but only you can understand yous self..

It`s really hard to accept the consiquence on love. Like on your case, which is very complicated because you have to marry someone else that you dont love and let go to the one you have loved. I can tell why that guy let you marry someone even he knows you loved him so much and you did everything for him. It is because he loved you and he want the best for you. Maybe because he has a deep reason why? But you might not know that the saying says " LOVE ALWAYS HAVE A HAPPY ENDING " and maybe even if you got hurt this time but in the end you will be together and finally made that love come true.

Maybe your not really for each other.. and who knows the one you'll be marrying deserves you more.. and maybe the one whom you'll marrying is the person who really loves you.. right?

I’m feeling so sorry for you…why are you getting married right away? One thing is good that you got to know the true nature of that bast*rd but I do think you need to give yourself some more time before getting married. Your heart is still in trauma and you need complete detachment from any kind of relation to connect with your own self. Maybe you will never be able to love and trust anybody but time is a great healer…it would have been better if could wait for sometime, meet somebody whom you can like and trust and then get married.

Just relax for a while you think this through. Every relationship has its ups and downs and you'll be surprised at how many relationships go down the drain or fail massively, even more worse than what you've experienced. Just think how lucky you are that you still have yourself and pour your energy on to something else more productive like earning money or something. Just think of it like this: You've manage to get yourself depressed like that so I'm sure you can manage to get yourself out of it in a fly. Just trust yourself. You can do it.

Hi, in fact this is very common event, don't think about more. It is better than your husband treat you after you get married. Cheer up! Your future is really long, you need self-confidence to make better everything. All of these are just a sort of experience of life even if good or bad. To enjoy everyday!

You should be hating yourself. In all actions that we made, it is only ourselves to blame if it fails in the end. You should keep some love and respect for yourself. Love is giving and never expecting something in return. Just be thankful you give your love. And also be thankful that at least it wasn't late that you find out what kind of guy is that love of yours. Because if you ind it later, when you are already tied to him, it will be more painful.

Don't stress yourself with it. Just control your emotions for the good of yourself. In complex relations, nobody can help others out. You have to figure it out.

Of course it is possible to only ever love one person, but our lives are quite long really and I am fairly sure you will be able to find someone else, who will make you happier. My first marriage failed and it was very sad, as we had a young baby together, but I moved on with my life, married again and now I am very happy. I have been with my husband for 13 years. So I hope you will find love again. Good Luck!!