who cares much

I agree that usually a woman cares more for their children than men do. I think this is because the woman has carried her child inside her for nine months, then has to go through hours of labour to give birth, so her body has been the home to the baby and she has felt it move and has nurtured it. I think this gives women a closer bond. Of course, men can be great, loving parents, but I think women have this special closeness as mothers.

actually both love and care their children but generally mom shows her love and care but father does not show very often but love and care remains in heart .I have seen now a days children are much more closer to their father than mother

Women do care for their children and i don't deny that.But to say men care less is an understatement.Men may not be so open about their feelings.But when you see your child going wayward it hurts as a parent whether male or female.Both the sexes give good advise to their children.But what i found was women persist longer than men.From my own experience i give good advise when children err but i find my wife persists longer.When children don't respond adequately to good advise i tend to recede into the background waiting for an ideal moment to reinforce my point whereas my wife persists.My reason is when someone doesn't listen to good advise then life with its hard knocks is bound to teach such people a bitter lesson and hopefully they will learn and gain experience.My better half on the other hand will worry herself silly,upsetting herself and me and nagging the child.

I don't think it's about who cares more. It's about who shows it more. I think both my mom and my dad cared about me the same way. My mom only showed it more than my dad that's why it seemed as if my mom cared more than my dad.

I think it depends on your culture and how you were brought up. I think the "family" is changing quite a lot now, and I don't think it so much set out as the woman will stay home and look after children and the man goes out to work. My sister works full time and her hsuband looks after the 3 kids, I was going to say and the hosuework...though thats not entirely true!! Instead she has to do that when she is home from work!!! I am going to be a stay at home mum until my child is of school age just because I dont want to have to pay for childcare, and I want my children to know me as their mum and not the lady who comes home and puts them to bed before going back to work before they are even awake in the morning. I dont want to miss a thing of my babies developments, it would kill me not to see their first steps or hear their first word because I was working. MY husband will be the breadwinner as he is now, and he doesn't mind this, but he also wants to be involved in the upbringing of out baby too! :)

Hi jackmarcel its a common feeling that women care more in family for their children. The reason may be because the babies are developed in womb of mother and therefore the babies find comfort with mother. Actually father also care equally for children bu mother being a woman is more expressive about her love and therefore a feeling gets developed that mother care more for child. Happy mylotting.

Hi, Perhaps you are right that mothers do care more of their children.But i think father also loves the children but as he has to look after for other things i.e. income for family and hence can't give more time to the children.

both mother and father