What is your story???
By mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
India
May 25, 2010 11:30am CST
Dear Buddies... It is worldly known fact that 'Love Happens!' and yet, it would be absurd to deny that a human mind considers a little before plunging itself into the wonderful ocean of love... That consideration can be about anything and everything...
I fell in love my with ex, because she was beautiful.. I saw her shell only, and didn't know that there was vamp hidden inside... I am in love with my fiancee because I know her past and my past has run on the similar lines. We have gone through almost similar life-style... Her kindness, maturity, playful nature and her loving and caring nature towards me, made me love her... And trust me, each day my Love for her increases million times...
Please share... What made you love your partner??? I trust everyone of us has been in love at one stage of life, the outcomes vary though... I wish to know what made you fall for the person you love or loved... Please share...
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
27 May 10
Ahhhhhhh, just a little humor here ... which time ???
#1 was lust and then the abuse started........
#2 was love but I was cheated on
#3 is an invalid and we've been married now for 27 years.
After all the "newness" wears off, they all look the same and will do the same things.
I still think I have a "love" coming in my life tho. I will be in my wheel chair and he'll push me LOL
Ah, just yanking your chain. Love is wonderful ! But it also hurts.
Hang in there and cherish the good days !
hugs,quita
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
28 May 10
Hi Quita... Thanks for sharing your personal experience.. I agree that after a certain period, a certain kind of general-ness appears in everything and love (or relations) can't be any exception to that... Your experiences have really been tough, but at the same time, you know so much about these things now... You can help so many people... 
Quita, you will never be in a wheel chair... Just exercise regularly, eat well and sleep well... Have a nice time! 
Quita, you will never be in a wheel chair... Just exercise regularly, eat well and sleep well... Have a nice time! @mr_pearl (5018)
• India
30 May 10
I don't know if it will really happen with me too... For present, I know that I can't live without her... I can spill the last drop of my blood for her...
I am doing good... feel good to know that you are well too... Hope, it'll be there for all the time- the love for life... Have a good time!!!
Have a good time!!!@quita88 (3715)
• United States
29 May 10
Marriage gets old. I know now you really don't think it will...but believe me you do develop a bit of "oh well.........." and really it's said cuz you still have the love deep within you.
LOL, if I do get into a wheel chair you will not know it anyways.
I am up on all fours LOL, nah, I'm fine and loving life:)
hope you are doing the same.
hugs,
quita
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
31 May 10
My story is almost the same. I had thought I had fallen for my ex but it was just attraction. I had Just mended my heart and ,with the help of my dear friend, I kept it open when my guy found me. We were Just friends at first. he was in love with me but I didn't even know.He gave me what I was looking for but thought after my ex I would never find, love and attention. Then one day I Finally realized that I loved him too. It wasn't just an attraction . And it does grow each day. We understand each other. We Truly connect.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
31 May 10
My ex I don't consider a first love.the man I'm with now I consider my first Real love.G-d Bless you both.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
26 May 10
I know what you meant. I read a quote somewhere once that in order to love someone special we have to first go through a chain of bad relationships with bad people. I now know why it is so true.
What made me fall in love with my boyfriend? Well, there are way too many things. It is better to just say the main things here. First thing that a ettracted me was his looks. Yes, it was one of those love at first sights. Then when we started talking I realized that he was one of the most innocent creatures I ever met. He wasn't like other guys who glorified their outgoing lifestyle. He spoke as it was. Also he didn't woo me at all. We just "talked" about everything under the sun. Then of course, his "I don't care about the society" style that attracted me a lot since I don't go by what the society says. I also liked when he got mad at people. It was extremely cute. Now that we are in a relationship he gives 100 percent of himself to me. I sometimes feel it is hard to keep up with what he does for me. He simply has a personality of a king.
@rbnoel2001 (17)
• United States
25 May 10
I fell in love with my partner when I turned 16 he is sweet, kind, good hearted and we are similar in every way. this August we are going to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary.
