Forgive and Forget

I'm sorry, but I'm afraid I have bad news for you. As time passes, so does part of the memory you want to let behind, but it will never fade away completely. Every feeling leaves a deep print somewhere inside, a print that can be covered to some extent, but will never disappear.

hello kae06_tigger.You know life is really unpredictable and sometimes there is lots laughter and fun and then are tears and mourns, and that is why it is life and goes that way.Its a hard truth and everyone has to accept it.No matter what time you are having, whether it a happy moment or sad moment believe me it sheds one or another but then it again comes someday and thats how it goes which called the circle of life. See here i don't know what has happened with let us take it the most dreadful thing has happend to you so far.Okay now i will suggest you that there is no gain in keeping it within yourself holding your grudges, none of it would help.If you think that leaning on stuff that has happened in past will make your future better or it will turn back time and everything will be back to normal then go ahead now cry as much as you want to, mourn till the world comes to an end, ruin your life.Does it sounds like you i don't think so and i don't think you want to do this to your self. Hey there are something things and times in life where you just have to let go.So let it go kae06_tigger LET IT GO.Come on Forgive and Forget thats real makind.

I am someone who can forgive very easily but I do not forget easily so for many days the event will be in my mind only, and it will keep me headache and heartache too so what I can say is that it will take time to get healed and you have to keep yourself busy enough to do not think too much about it.

You better forget the person who hurt you first,before you can move on. Think for all the bad sides of the person,and ugly is the person is. Keep in mind that,he is the ugliest and the most bad person you have ever known. That he is nothing and he is worthless.(hehehe) Never think about your happy moment,but think you had the worst moment with him always. No one can ever help you overcome your pain,but yourself alone. So,be strong and smile and be beautiful always. And never look at him whenever you had the chance to meet him.

That's very to do, I doubt it is even possible. You may get healed in the long run but you can never forget the person that caused the heartache. He/she will always be a part in your mind/heart, unless you take his existence of your mind, as if he never exists, that when you meet again, you can not recognize him because to you he didn't exist. But that is just impossible, unless you have amnesia.lol.

When it first happens you just feel so empty, like you cannot possibly find a way to move on with your life... like there is nothing left for you, it hurts so bad, you have no motivation, no energy, no interest in anything... you go off food, your heart aches, you hurt like you have never hurt before, you cry yourself to sleep, you cry all day your eyes burn... it is one of the worst forms of pain that I have ever encountered and I can only hope and pray that this will never happen again... but when I did encounter this, the thing that got me through was hope, friends and of course time... time is a great healer it has been said and it is very true, how much time is down to how long it takes for you to heal. I don't think that you can eve forget such a heart ache... you just have to try and forget, and instead of living in the past and worrying about it, you must try to look to the future, and hope that happiness is not far away.