older or younger?
By kae06_tigger
@kae06_tigger (86)
12 responses
@rosie230 (1700)
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26 May 10
I have always gone with someone older than me... I do not know why this is, but I just feel more comfortable, and more secure. My first boyfriend was 20 and a half years older than me, and I was with him 10 years and had a child together... my current boyfriend I have been with for the last 4 years, and he is 19 years older than me... age does not matter these days, I do not think about our age difference at all, it bears no input on our relationship![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@kae06_tigger (86)
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26 May 10
thats true age doesnt matter:)and i agree that it feels more secure having a bf older than you..maturity is a factor also :)
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@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
26 May 10
Initially I prefer men who's older than me but then since I feel in love with guys younger than me I get rid of that preferences. Doesn't matter as long as he loves me sincerely and we get along together and we look good together. But please not too young and not too old.
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@med889 (5940)
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26 May 10
I have always preferred someone older than me and thankfully I have even got someone like this, my boyfriend is older with twelfth days only but for me its okay as far as he is not younger than I am. He is tall, dark, straight and these are the features which makes him my man.
@kharlav (1667)
• Philippines
26 May 10
Men have younger mental ability than women, meaning they are immature because their growth is delayed compared to girls. They are 3 years more immature than women. For example, a 24 year old man thinks like a 21 year old woman. So if I will have a younger man, he thinks so immaturely compared to me, which means that we dont meet the eye and we wont get along well.
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@juicekodai (1119)
• Philippines
26 May 10
i wanted a guy who is mature so age doesnt really matter.. i had an ex who is 3 years younger than him, i had to break up with him coz he is not mature enough... my recent boyfrient is 8 years older than me... i thought we is the one im looking for.. i thought for his age he is already mature.. but he is not.. he cheated on me and still cant handle responsibility... so there, age doesnt matter at all...
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
26 May 10
I prefer to be with older men, but I always end up with younger ones.
Well, my present bf is younger than I am though I have told myself before that I will no longer go with a younger guy because they are immature and happy go lucky. But again, i am with a younger guy and I can say that I love him more and have no problem with the age gap unlike my former young bf. I think, it is not with the age really. It is more on personality.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
26 May 10
I prefer a guy to be older than me. As it is my husband is 8 years older than I am. Though you'd certainly never know it as he acts younger than I do most of the time!
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Happy mylotting!
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@my_january (967)
• Philippines
26 May 10
I want a guy who's older than me. My first boyfriend is a year younger than me, we didn't work. Then he was followed with some that are of the same age or 2 years older than me. But all didn't work. My ex, who is 9 years older than me, I'm 19 when we met- we lasted for 6 years. But things suddenly changed, we broke up. My current love is 5 years older than me. I am attracted with mature type of guy. A guy who is not concerned about going out with friends, partying and other boy's stuff. I want a guy who thinks more about the future- preparing for the future.
@karen1969 (1779)
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26 May 10
Well, I was born in 1969. My first husband was born in 1967 and that was a bad relationship which only lasted 1 1/2 years. Then I was with someone who was born in 1962, which lasted a couple of years but broke up. Then a guy born in 1963 which lasted 4 years, but we fell out of love with each other. Then I found a wonderful man who I am married to. We have been together 13 years and he was born in 1975, so I think a younger man is good for me! ![](/Content/images/emotes/lol.gif)
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