Will a relationship with a big age gap work?

Any relationship would work if both parties put the effort into it to make it work. Age is never a factor for a relationship to end in disaster. A relationship would not work only when both parties seem to careless about making things work. It seems we tend to forget that in the olden times the king is older compared to his queen.

I think its all about loving someone and age is secondary thing. As long as you love the person and have very good understanding of each other's feeling age would not be an issue. Its love which makes relationship work and not the age.

I think that it certainly can work. I think that when you really love someone, age doesn't really matter. I think that so long as the two people really love each other, then they will find a way to make it work out.

It all depends. There are big gap relationships that work fine but there are also which did not work. What I can say is it depends upon the people who are in that relationship. But mostly, young men with older women won't work usually. I know lots of partners that the woman is younger than the man but they are fine which means it usually works for older man and young woman not the vice versa.

If my brother gets married to someone twice his age I would obviously be getting worried for him but then I think it is his choice and I am not someone to interfere in someone else's life to boss around, but sure the gap is here so I will still be worried as we do not know if they can cope together.

well i am 30 and my boyfriend is 48, and yes it can work.. age does not make a realtionship work or not work, these days age is not a major factor, if at all... with my relationship, age does not come into it at all, it is afterall just a number and for me it is the person I love, for who is his, not his age.

hi vijayanths, I have nothing against relationships in which a big age gap between a man and a woman is there. I can say that age doesn't matter in relationships. They are just number and nothing in significance. What matter is that there is a real love existing between the man and the woman. I have seen many couples in which I can say are or were successful despite the truth that one of them is or was very old to be partnered with his or her partner. As for me, my boyfriend and I have a big age gap but we are on our relationship for more than 2 years now. We have some arguments sometimes but we are able to find solutions for it. My boyfriend is very much older than me but it doesn't bother me at all. In fact, I prefer him than any other younger guys who is very immature because he is a responsible man.

I think any relationship has the potential to work. Yeah, you're both put at a disadvantage with generation gaps, but I think love can conquer anything really, no cliche intended!

Hello dear bhai, Well,in my opinion,it's not age that matter when it comes to love,but,it's LOVE. When we fall in love,we never asks the age,status,occupation etc etc. Love doesn't know about age,culture nor religion. My dad is 16 years older than my mom. I also had few friends who were older or younger far from their partner. My friend is older than her husband for 13 years and they are living happily together and they don't have child either. When we love someone,we only listens to what our heart says and what our heart beats. We don't even care about the looks or family background or the character of the person. Mostly people who are inlove doesn't know what is wrong and what is right. And,i don't care if i fall in love with someone who is 10 years than me as long as he loved me. Or, i can also fall inlove with a man who is 20 years older than me. We can never tell

Hi friend, I think that if u love any person there is no any age limit. love can't see age. love just sees good things and love can't contain any specific defination. so we can not have rights to approve or not such relations.