love or study ?

@mine2008 (107)
Philippines
May 26, 2010 5:35pm CST
if your in the situation that you in love with someone and your parents want you to focus on your study which one you will follow ? your heart or your future?
9 responses
• United States
16 Aug 10
Can I have both love and my future? I know it's hard balancing schoolwork and a boyfriend//girlfriend but if I am in love with someone, I could work harder to make it work. If I study harder then I could have more time to spend with a boyfriend while also maintaining my grades. In theory. I hope it's actually possible when a boy does come around.
@mine2008 (107)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Thanks for sharing but i would like to know more when you experience it. i know its easy to say words. i have the experience and for me cant choice both of them its really hurt but you must sacrifice!!! why? for better YOU on the future^_^
• India
29 Jul 10
There is time for every thing time for study and time for love.You can study at the same time you can love some one.It doesn't matter you can continue both there is no harm.Most of the people they study and love their girl/boy even they are intelligent.We should know the limit to do things....
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
27 May 10
well, both of them are important..but you should prioritize your study over love no matter how difficult it could be... besides, the communicative technology is increased rapidly today that we can talk to our lovers via Skype, YM, MSN or you could simply call up as the cell phone is surely next by you that you have no excuses... so, you need to focus on your study to get good grade to support your family to be..how are you going to support them with either low income or no income at all? Love is not everything that we need!
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
27 May 10
well i face both at the same time in the past and now..if you can balance it well,it will be ok and it will work out between love and study..it's just that you must szcrifice a lot but surely your partner will undersatnd..if not,just kick him out!!..ya know what,this situation happents to me right now and is choose both...
• Philippines
28 May 10
There's a time for everything. Time to study and time to love. Choose every step one at a time. If you are still studying focus on your study. It does not mean that you will restrain yourself from having crushes or loving but being in a relationship is another thing.
@abhi000 (235)
• India
29 Jul 10
I will follow my parents because future is more important than heart.If we don't have future how will stand on our own feet we cant depend on parents a the time.When I get opportunity i will study very well and after my study i will go for love it is not necessary to have the heart but it is necessary to have future.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
26 May 10
If you do not follow your future you will have nothing to offer the person other than your love. While this may seem romantic, you need to be able to keep a roof over your head as well as your future mate and any children you might have.
@lilxkaos (131)
• United States
27 May 10
is being in love suppose to interfere with your study? in my opinion having somebody else you love is like another brain to help you study. i have alwaise got good grades and having a girlfriend never interfered with my studies
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
27 May 10
I think nowsday modern days with modern communication , even if u study far away there are Internet connection with skype , msn , email . So even long distance relationship is possible. Personally i will choise study first , because with study and can get better jobs and later able to support your love ones. So manny people in the industry with experience but not able to raise up to management level because of lack of diploma or degrees. So study while u still can. The older your are the harder the brain works. WHile studying if your love stray away , then it is not meant to me.