has anyone ever met anyone off the internet?
@chantalreanne (160)
May 26, 2010 7:23pm CST
obviously this used to be a taboo subject but the internet is a common way to meet people these days i was just wondering what others experiences were and their stories. i met a friend off the internet when i was just 13 after speaking on msn for a few weeks we went to the local fair together it was really weird, she looked and seemed so different in person. i also met this guy i liked off the internet and he was a completely different person but i've never had any bad experiences, i know they can happen though and it is quite dangerous
13 responses
@mady146 (81)
• India
27 May 10
I've met some people in real whom I knew just from internet. My experiences have been good so far and must say, that few were really amazing. Its really a nice way to make friends but of course unless you meet people in real, everything is just virtual.
"Build bridges not boundaries and you'll have a friend" :)
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
yeah i guess, the internet is a good way of talking to new people with caution of course. but some people can be very different from what they appear on the internet which is not good if you fall in love online or something
@med889 (5941)
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27 May 10
I met my boyfriend who is also here. He is from France, Paris and I am from England, London but we met and now we are together for more than four years,he comes to London and I go to Paris as much as we can, it it fun and now we are even getting engaged this year.
@med889 (5941)
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27 May 10
Actually when we first met we were never separated again, he works in London and I am a university student who is trying for a job too so we meet everyday from the very first day itself, when he goes for a visit to his place I go with him, I think after marriage I will settle with him in Paris as I love being there.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi med: It sounds like a nice story. You'll never know how you'll find love and the Internet has become a way to find it. I think that long distance are not that important if you both know what you want and work for it. Thanks for your answer. Hope you are having a nice day and that your love grows deeper everyday.
ALVARO.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
thats great must be difficult having a long distance relationship like that but its great you are doing your best to make it work. i bet it is fun travelling to see eachother but where will you be moving together in the future
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
27 May 10
I meet this young lady in the internet because we been both members of a social site...My Space. She also resides near from my place. We been chatting regularly almost everyday and we become really good friends. It was last year that we decided to meet in person. Indeed we meet and she looks just the same in the internet and in personal. We had a good time together.
But I suddenly lost communication with her in the following month and we no longer chat everyday. I do miss her very much and I really felt sad because I lost a friend. How I wish I could see her again. And until now I still think of her from time to time.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
thats really sad how did you lose contact with her? and i'm not on about looks i mean people can seem different on the internet than in person because people open up a lot more have you tried messaging her on myspace?
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi chantalreanne: It's a little bit dangerous but I have met people on the internet and we have become friends. In my case I didn't meet a person but a group of persons. I'm a member of Keane and Coldplay's fan clubs. I've talked to my online friends for months, I have chatted with them and finally we meet each other when I went to watch Keane and Coldplay live in concert. They are really nice people. Thanks for asking us this question and sharing with us your opinion. Have a nice day.
ALVARO.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
yeah it can be dangerous especially when people fake who they are and some people can get into terrible situations but it is possible to trust people on the internet and create a bond so you just know they are for real. and i am glad you have met some new friends off the internet it gives us oppurtunities to interact with people we never would have before so we have a wider range of friends
@angelboouk123 (34)
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28 May 10
I met my fiance on a chat room when I was 15 and he was 20. Turned out though he was my mates big cousin and we were sitting in the same library..how is that for fate?
Me and my friends used to meet up with guys we met online. We always met in a neutral place and never went with anyone alone. The guys were ok as mates but we dont see them anymore.
You have to be so careful as they could be anyone.
@chantalreanne (160)
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28 May 10
bit weird that he fell for you at 20 though but then again i was 16 and my boyfriend was 21 when we met online lol and yeah and sometimes people appear different to what they are online but glad you and your fiancee are happy together :) x
@ritesh_z (3)
• India
27 May 10
When I tell people I've had (and still continue to have) more friends from net than my regular friends, they find it strange. In fact, I met my first love on net. We had a blossoming relationship and it was wonderful. The very thought that I met her online made we feel strange within but I loved it. Even now I've so many friends online, some of which I've met in person and other continue to be in touch either through phone or messengers. People advice to stay away from net pals because they aren't safe to be with. Lol. I couldn't agree with them ever. May be it's time they ran into one net friend.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
yeah i strangely have more friends on the net but i do think its quite bad because it prevents socialising in person as much and is wasting precious time in life but i bet you talk to them people on the net more than in person
@kedralynn (980)
• United States
27 May 10
One of my very best friends in the whole world started out as a stranger on a website. We've known each other for 7 years online. We've had many phone conversations and been there for each other thru thick and thin. So it was high time to meet up in person! With him, after all these years I really didn't have any worries about safety or what he'd really be like. We already know everything about each other.
I have met a few people from the internet in person and I always do it in a safe place. Either at my parent's home with family around, or in a public place with friends around. Ya know just in case. Sometimes they weren't what I expected and other times they were exactly as I thought they were and we still talk online today.
@kenites (337)
• Philippines
27 May 10
I have meet a lot of good friend through the internet and I even met my ex-girlfriend through chatting. Internet is a good way of meeting new friends. But I think this is risky to younger ones since there are tendency that this younger people can be easily bamboozled by some bad people who have bad intention into meeting them.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
yeah its dangerous for the younger ones although a lot of them do it and can sometimes be risky for adults too but can sometimes be completely safe if you know a lot about them already and have mutual friends
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
ha everyone meets on yahoo! its great everything worked out for them but think id be embarrassed if i met my future husband online
@roleez1 (168)
• United States
27 May 10
I am not sure if it is anymore dangerous than going home with someone from a bar. I mean wherever you eventually meet should be a public safe place. That really goes without saying but I see girls leave drunk with strangers from bars that I just know the guy has only one thing in mind and god only hopes he is not some mad man. Again I think its OK to meet someone online offline provided you be careful and use common sense.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
yeah i agree with that and sometimes a bit more safe if youve already spoke a lot to that person on the internet its a lot worse at the bar because everyones drunk and bringing out the worst in themselves. have you ever met anyone online?
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
28 May 10
No, I haven't. I'm not married and my relatives are anxious to get me hitched. I didn't know how much until an old aunt told me, why don't you meet a guy off the internet and marry him? LOL! But, from the other comments, some hookups through the net have worked. Maybe I'll go make my aunt happy LOL!
@Nickfyoung (323)
• Australia
27 May 10
Many old guys are on there pretending to be young guys and chatting to young girls. There have been a couple of young girls killed here lately meeting older guys they met online so be careful. On the other hand I men my wife online and we are very happy.
@chantalreanne (160)
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27 May 10
yeah theres a lot of strange people on the internet so younger people need to be cautious but it works out for a lot of older people and i'm glad you and your wife have been successful :)