which one is u'r choice?

India
May 27, 2010 12:02am CST
This is an imaginary situation Say that u love a girl but she doesn't love u N There is another girl who loves u very much,but u don't love this girl Which one would u marry? WIll u make the girl who doesn't love u,understand u'r love n wait for her or will u marry the one who loves u? THE ONE WHO LOVES U OR THE ONE U LOVE WHAT would ya do my fellow mylotters?!
11 responses
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
If i'll listen to my heart I would say I would marry the one I love. I remembered a long time ago when I prayed really hard and asked God to give me the person I really love. I will oversee all the things that was always a question in my life if he gives me a chance to finally get what I really want and be happy. Now he gave me that person and I am very happy. But if I was listening to my brain back then.. then I'd probably marry the person who loves me more.. Then I'd probably won't be suffering too much or will be living a spoiled life because of that.. But I don't know If I may be able to love that person back.. I may also be unfair to him and live a lie with him. But good thing I chose my heart.. because I am currently happy and I know for sure my husband loves me although i can say that I loved him more before.. But its not important anymore.. Life is too short we deserve to be happy.. I deserve to be happy.
@ohiocy (214)
• Malaysia
28 May 10
Hmmm.. a very tacky condition. I would try to go for the girl that I like nevertheless. And the same I time I would let the girl that like me to know what I'm feeling. If everything turns out to be just a broken dream then it's just high time to move on and keep on searching.
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
27 May 10
This is a very common situation, but very confusing at the same time. I will take none of the above! I will keep searching for the one we have mutual feelings.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 May 10
To be honest if the feelings were like that or a person has a one sided love then i would not be with either of them as it will only end in complete disaster in the end.You have to love each other to have a good relationship aswell as that you both have to give and take in a relationship as that is not one sided either.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
28 May 10
I'll imagine that I'll will try & marry both... To have a successful married life both should trust and love each other.. So why go for the one who hates you,and if you don't like the one who loves you..leave her..say sorry..Try another.... Have a great day/night ....
• Philippines
28 May 10
if you still have the timeor i mean if you are still not that old or you are not in a hurry to marry better choose no one. you'll just gonna hurt yourself if you'll try to run after the girl who doesn't love you while you might just hurt the girl who loves you if you would just try to marry her but at the end you might not learn to love her. truth hurts but it is better to get hurt by the truth rather than by a lie.
• South Korea
27 May 10
Practically i can I choose both of the situation?lol coz ove have many phases.. if i have to choose the one who dosent love...then i will show him everything i can for him to love me.... on the other hand if i will choose the one that i didnt love.... maybe if i will just open my heart and give it a try why not..if he is better than the others... So whatever way we chose.... we make it... and its in us how to make that situation work
@zhangxia (87)
• China
27 May 10
it's a very old topic .i have seen it very long ago . as for me ,i will give up the girl which i love and she don't ,wish her happy and joy . and i will let the girl who love me give up too .i don't wanna make she happiness lingers here and not go forward .i will feel guilty .cuz ,i don't give this she want . so ,i will wait for a girl go for me .we love each other ,it's mutual .
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
27 May 10
Neither, both options are a horrific mistake. Marriage needs to be based on both sides loving each other. In a case where it is merely one side or the other doing all the loving then that is a relationship doomed to failure from the start. Enter into a relationship as equal partners on even terms or don't bother wasting their time and yours.
• Indonesia
27 May 10
i will try to make the girl i love to love me too.. if i can't then i will search another girl that i love and she loves me too, i won't marry the girl that i don't love cause the marriage would not stand long
• India
27 May 10
I will leave both and will wait for the one whom I love and she loves me too