kids on facebook

Philippines
May 27, 2010 10:20am CST
my 7 year old niece is asking her mother to create a facebook account for her... she is asking why cant she have a facebook account when her bestfriend has one... we just laugh and told her that facebook is not for kids... although some of my friends have created an account for their kids, i still dont like the idea that my niece having her own facebook account... what do think?.. do you allow your kids to have their own account in facebook?
10 responses
28 May 10
i create my baby an account and i love seeing her there. and one purpose of it is for my mother to see her grandchild :)
31 May 10
see this is the good point of facebook. It means that if families are seperated they can still speak easily, but it needs to be carefully monitered, I think the parent needs ot check their profile daily check the messgaes and what they have been saying, ensuring no personal info is given out to epople they dont know, and also going through their friends lsit to ensure thewy havent added someone they dont know.
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
oh yeah.. i have friends who created an account for their baby.. makes me wonder why dont they just put their baby's pictures in their profile... that way, they dont have to manage two accounts.. :)
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
27 May 10
You are NOT allowed to have an account if you are under 13 (I think that even that is too young). The Terms of Service are QUITE clear about that. If you know of anyone who has a Facebook account who is under 13, then I think that should be reported. Facebook is NOT for kids. There are plenty of sites suitable for 7 year olds where they can play games (which, I imagine, is what they want to do).
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
27 May 10
Many adult Facebook users are having concerns about their security. Read this article to see what should be done about it: http://uk.news.yahoo.com/38/20100519/ttc-seven-ways-to-stay-safe-on-facebook-f0c422d.html
• Philippines
27 May 10
oh, i even thought facebook is for over 18... and yeah, i agree, i beleive she just wants to play farmville, since she always see her mother playing it...
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
27 May 10
I don't believe that facebook is for young children. I think your niece would quickly become bored with the site because she is so young so why put her at potential risk for something she will get no benefit from. My children are grown but if I had a young child that child would not have a facebook account.
• Philippines
27 May 10
i agree... that's why we just told her that she cant have an account coz she wont have friends on it... and yeah, i also dont want to take the risk of exposing her to contents that are not for kids...
1 Jun 10
i have a facebook account and it is not easy to use... so i would say no...
• United States
3 Jun 10
7 years old is to young for a social networking site. When my children were in their teens I allowed them to get on some sites but the stipulation was that I would have access to all passwords and I would be able to view their sites at anytime. I didn't actually view their sites a lot. I might have checked in once a week or so. But by agreeing to those terms they were careful about what they were posting and what was going on online.
• United States
27 May 10
I have a 7 yr old son and he is not allowed to create a facebook account until he is 14 yrs old. My husband and I feel he is too young.
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi rb noel: I agree with you and I also think that 14 years old is the right age to start using Facebook because at this point, your kid will be mature enough to know how to interact with people on the internet. But I would also give him/her some advices. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi juice kodai: I think you are right. Facebook is not for kids, because they would be exposed to meet strange people that would add them as a friends and you'll never know what do they really want to do with your children and second, because some of the Facebook groups are not the right places for kids. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
31 May 10
My 8 year old newphew has facebook- and he is a very young 8 year old too, very immature. I also have a 10 year old niece who has facebook but she is extremely mature. I dont think kids should have facebook UNLESS they are mature and KNOW not to add people they do not know, only to speak to family and school friends, never to accept a friend request from anybody tey don't know, even if they claim to be their friends mother or father (let's face it, kids parents are not always innocent). And to be very careful about the infomation they put on facebook!!! A lot of children dont think about security and wouldnt think twice about putting their address openly out there and then stating when they are going on holiday fro 2 weeks and the house will be empty...!!! Then again I also know adults who do the same! I certainly wont let my kids use facebook until they are responsible enough to know not to be stupid on there. My best friends sister met a man on facebook- she was 13, he was 17- she met up with him telling her mum she was at a friends house, when infact she had gone all the way to a big city she didnt know, to meet this man she had met who she didnt know, she ended up well I wont go into it...but you get the picture. And when her mum found out she went crazy, blocked her internet usage and stopped her using her phone. This would terrify me about my kids using facebook or to be honest any aspect of the internet without me knowing what they were up to...and now with this Windows 7, you can even stop people accessing what you were doing online...!!!
@roleez1 (168)
• United States
27 May 10
I think you ought to read the discussion I started called FACEBOOK USERS BEWARE
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
28 May 10
A 7 year old on Facebook, My Space or any other Social site like that is a recipe for disaster. To many parents do not seem to realize that children on such places is a red flag to pedophiles. It is much better to keep your niece to age appropriate sites and to closely monitor her computer time for her own safety.