forgetfullness
By vathsala
@vathsala30 (3732)
India
10 responses
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
27 May 10
hi vathsala garu,
i too have forgetfulness,due to that i too also have lot of things in life,then it will become a big list,i will forget important things and non important things also,silly things will be remembered by me and important things will not be remember by me,have a nice day
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
27 May 10
Hi yugasini garu
Same pinch here too. I will very well remember peanut things and forget mountains. Once i travelled by train from my native place to my existing place but while alighting as usual I forgot one thing. This time it was my handbag and went home. After reaching home i searched for some money to give the auto driver but bag was missing then immediately i rushed to the station, but did not found it
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
28 May 10
hi vathsala garu,
thanks for the response,next when you are going to the tour,call me i will carry your luggage so that you need not forget any thing by mistake,some time small things i kept the thing in some place and searching for it at another place,when the age is growing the forgetfull ness also will be grown,have a nice day
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
28 May 10
Thank you for your helping nature but now a days i am a little bit cautious while travelling but became more absent minded at home and memory power is decreasing day by day. May be due to the increasing of my age, my forgetfulness is also increasing accordingly. Thanks for your response
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
27 May 10
I am a little absent minded but So far I have not lost anything precious. I think it is quite normal. Please don't forget me absentmindedly. I value your friendship,lol.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
27 May 10
Thank you ,pal for not considering me as a "thing" and treat me like a human..
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
27 May 10
How can I forget you, when you are my valid friend. I will forget things only and not friends and friendship. Don't worry lol
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Everybody do forget, and sometimes absent-minded. This is true especially when you age, this things happen more frequently. In my case, I am always the last to leave the house and I have to go around the house checking things that needs to be checked especially electricity, flat iron or stove, and water continuously running after having the daily hygiene. On my way out, sometimes I still forget my wallet, my cap, and even my eyeglasses that makes me do another trip back home. Quite frustrating sometimes.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hi webzap
Fogetfulness may be due to so many reasons. When we are aged it is common, secondly when there is tension and stress then also we will not be able to remember things. When we are in a hurry to the office, we will be searching for the car keys and wallet or Identity Card. I think in every household these are the common things as far as i noticed
@vandana7 (100526)
• India
28 May 10
Oh Vatsala, I have been forgetful to an extent, which I always attributed to my being under stress. Of late, however, I seem to find more signs of it. And I am reading a lot about Alzhiemers, dementia and such stuff, which is scaring me a lot. In a way, Alzhiemer would be a relief, because I couldnt be hurt by anybody - mentally, and my muscular atrophy wouldnt give me much chance to feel the pain as well. But dependence on others would be scary. Yes, I am concerned about it. But I am told it is natural to be so forgetful at this stage of life. Things improve after a couple of years.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hi vandana
yes. If we have stress and tension, we may tend to forget things. As our age advances, then also it is common. Do not scare for alzhiemer, or dementia or such stuff. It occurs due to over stress or some other major problem or some neurological factors. Your forgetfulness is a cause of stress
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
28 May 10
hi,vathsala,till today,i haven't faced this forgetfulness problem...i am very much care with the things to do and other family members also request me to kindly REMIND the issues according to the preplanned timings..
In future,i don't know,but this is not a problem for me.Have a nice time,friend.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
28 May 10
Hi Balu,
It seems you are highly alert always unlike me who is always absent minded and loose so many things and repent later. I think your sharp memory is indeed a boon for you for which i feel very much jealous of you lol
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
28 May 10
Hi vathsala dear, i am running 64 now, 'forgetfullness' has creepend since last 4-5 years, i was able to remember a lot earlier, was able to reproduce on blackboard 10-12 pages of complex mathematical derivations from memory, but now i can't
The most irritating point is--i forget my spects, search for it frequenly, to prevent now i have 5 spectacles..
Welcome always.
Cheers.
Prof
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hi professor
As the age advances, we are tend to forget things. Keep your spects in a particular place daily so that you need not search. Thanks for participating
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
5 Jun 10
This forgetfulness is unavoidable to all after the age of 40. It goes on increasing after the age of 50. The most common forgetfulness is not switching off the lights and fans, searching for things etc. I misplaced my black beed necklace and I am still searching for it. Getting scoldings from my husband and sometimes he will give ultimatum that I should find it out within one hour, as he is the person who has gifted it out to me.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 May 10
Sometimes i forget where i left my keys or my wallet and it gets annoying. I'm a merry person but i know most of the time where my stuff are although there are times when i really forget where i put them.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
28 May 10
Yes frontvisions. I too agree with you. My son is also a merry person and is very playful in nature. When he is already late to his office, then only he will search for his ID card, Keys or mobile and make the house a total hell and we all will be busy in searching it for him. Finally it will be found in his pant pocket only
@takie23 (142)
•
27 May 10
Hi, it's not as if I am suffering from forgetfulness, but because of it, I find it difficult at times, to find things around the house. I am the one always putting things in the right-safe place and two weeks later I've forgot where I should look for it!
At times, if not careful, it can get so severe I couldn't find anything at all and it is really irritating. What I often do to help is keeping journals of things I do each day and take notes of all the things happening every day as much I could. I also do meditation to help me be less absent minded. ;)
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hi takie
It happens with me too sometimes. Sometimes, Keeping the things in front of my eyes, i will search for it lol.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
27 May 10
Hi vathsala!I admit that i always forgot where i put my things.i'm looking for my cellphone just know.in and out of my room.but then i realized i'm using it to listen to some music.i will call it careless mistake.my glasses always become my victim.i just can't remember where the last place i put it. always asked for my family members to help me to look for it.hahaha...:)
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
27 May 10
Hi Hanum
It is the same with my husband too. He will wear his glasses and search the entire house and shout at us too thinking that we have misplaced it and ask us to help him out. and when we ask his to go and see the mirror then he will realise and go away laughing