Love at first sight...Is that true? how come..?

Philippines
May 27, 2010 12:15pm CST
Some people say.. they have fallen in love at first sight... is that true? how come..? Is it really a love? I can't understand... Anyone who can explained it? pls..? It's really bothering me actually..
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@Kikotay (74)
• Malaysia
27 May 10
Personally, I do not believe in love at first sight. First of all, it's because love at first sight would mean that the person has fallen in love based on looks. There are chemicals in us humans that make us react to a person with appeal, thus having the feeling that we'd fallen in love. We think constantly about the person, wonder what he/she is like, heart beats faster when the person does talk to you, blush when he/she smiles at you. It's purely infatuation. What if the person you've "fallen" for was not an ideal partner for you? Or he/she has bad habits you just cannot stand? What if in the long run you've stopped thinking of the person or your heart stops beating fast when you see the person and you feel as if the love feeling has faded away? As van said, there are a few people who do fall in love at first sight. The few people may have had great luck in being infatuated with an appealing person and also finding out that the person matches their ideal partner as well. So no, I do not think love at first sight is true. Why is it bothering you though?
• Philippines
27 May 10
thanks kikotay..yah you're right.. they just base on the looks of the person..it's quite bothering me because some one wants me to believe him that he was experienced that kind of weird thing.
• Malaysia
28 May 10
I would like to know why and how he has experienced love at first sight. I'm curious. What did he tell you?
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi: i think that love at first sight only happends on fairy tales. You can feel Physical attraction. But how can you love somebody that you don't know at all. In my opinion love grows by the time and not just on a day. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
• Philippines
27 May 10
Thanks too :) the way you talk..and think..it seems like..you are matured.. nice starsailover.. thanks again.. :)
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 May 10
I think you can be strongly attracted at first sight. and it can turn into love...
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi dawnald: I think we have the same opinion on this issue. Love needs time, how can you say that you love a person that you're about to meet. This doesn't make sense to me. How can you love someone when you just know that he/she is pretty. That's inmature. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
• India
28 May 10
There cannot be love at first sight. One may be attracted to a person either by his/her good looks or some attribute of that person or even to some kind of unique mannerism that person has, but it can never be love. love can only mature when you get to know a person and begin to really like him/her in spite of her faults and want to spend as much time with that person as possible because this brings infinite joy to you.At first sight it could be just attraction or even infatuation which may or may not lead to love.
@zhangxia (87)
• China
28 May 10
so ,you are a innocent girl .it's a magic thing . two people meet in a bar or another place .boy say ,i love you from the firs sight .girl say ,me too .then they laugh ,drink ,go for dinner ,go to bed together . then a few days later ,them break up .like they don't meet each other before . it's like fast food .you hungry then you eat .then you are full ang lost your appetite .you go away .
@vanhook (99)
• Indonesia
27 May 10
maybe yes maybe no. It just only a few people who really fallen in love at the first sight. More of people said that he/she falling in love at the first sight, but for the true, it just only a short time filling when they saw a man / girl that make them interested.
• Philippines
27 May 10
yah..u have a point vanhook.. maybe that's not love..an affection i think..?
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
28 May 10
There are some who can fall in love at first sight. There is no explanation for this. There are no words to tell you how it works. Most of the time, 'love at first sight' relationships do not work out. But sometimes they do. Again, I can't explain it. My advice to you would be... *think* about your relationship, and do not try to 'fall in love at first sight'. That is generally a bad plan.