Do you agree with ABORTION..? Why?
By mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
Philippines
May 27, 2010 12:33pm CST
I just have seen the picture of the fetus earlier in my facebook account..
(i think he's already a term baby)
I really feel sorry for him...He's already a human...
poor baby...why should he have to suffer to the mistake of his parent? tsk tsk tsk..
Do you agree with abortion..? what will you do if you accidentally get pregnant? and you don't have to..? Will you abort your OWN baby? Yes/No..and why..?
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28 responses
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 May 10
Hi Mhekhies,
I got pregnant on birth control and I opted not to have an abortion. It happened twice and both times were the least opportune times in my life to be having another child. I have no regrets at all in my choice to keep my babies. Still, I believe in the woman's right to choose. My circumstances and the person I am, my family and support people and everything is not the same as someone elses. I am not in any position to judge someone else when it comes to something like this.
I remember the days before abortion was legal and there were women getting them anyway and in some very unprofessional places and unhealthy settings. Now that was horrible for both the mother and the baby and often any possible future babies. If abortion were made to be illegal again, trust me, they would not stop.
I will say that I am very against late term abortions unless the mother's life is at risk. I also think that more should be done to encourage and councel women in this situation to choose life rather than abortion. Still in the end it should be the woman's choice but a well thought out choice with much thought and much councelling. And I really think that ones that choose abortion should not be made to feel ashamed. The picketing I see outside of planned parenthood places is disturbing and does nothing to make positive change. Last week I saw a group of nuns picketing! What good do they really think will come from such a negative action?
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 May 10
Hi Kalen,
I do believe that it is a very very hard choice for most women and I think many of them just feel they are in an impossible situation. It can feel that way. I think that rather than take away their choice, maybe, a little more talk could be helpful to some....not all.
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@kalen0523 (8)
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28 May 10
I heart two of my friends had abortion.They cried,for their losing children.I believe that they don't wanna lost their babies,maybe they just can not keep the babies for some reasons.But for me,I don't agree with abortion,and I'll be carefully.Aha.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
27 May 10
No, I don't agree with abortion but I do agree with birth control where conception is prevented. One of my reasons is that, I wouldn't have wanted my mother to abort me. I'm happy she didn't.
@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
28 May 10
That is a choice everyone should think of "are they glad they weren't aborted'. My mother was going through a difficult time while she was pregnant with me but she chosen to not abort and I am very thankful for it. She is pretty happy with her decision also I might add...LOL
@yuansplace (543)
• Switzerland
27 May 10
Who agrees with abortion? Only those people who do not think before making a decision to have a child. Abortion is absolutely a sin because it is also a form of killing and according to the law of God and to the law of the society that nobody could kill anyone without a position to do so because it violates human rights. It is very hard to hear and think that a lot of teens nowadays were into this kind of mess. I do hope that there will more organizations to help this individuals and to open up the minds of the new generations that it is indeed a criminal act and should not be followed.
@Crisfannum1 (314)
• Indonesia
28 May 10
Yup, for certain reason, I'm not against abortion. For example healths, failed birth control,and having kids in a young age below 15.
@MysticTomatoes (1053)
• United States
11 Jun 10
The only way God created anything was if he came down from Heaven and slept with you.
@thekelz (277)
• United Kingdom
27 May 10
When I was younger I didn't have a problem with abortion, I thought if a young couple got pregnant then the rest of their lives shouldn't be ruined by having the responsibility of a young child that neither of them wanted.
However now I'm older I totally disagree with abortion, If people don't want children then they should use protection(there's enough to choose from). If somebody does get pregnant then there are so many other choices than abortion, there are many couples out there who cant have a baby and would happily adopt a child. Also I've never met anyone who has regretted having a baby, I cannot say the same about people who've had an abortion .
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi thekelz: I agree with you, there are so many different option so it's not aceptable that some people prefer to kill their own baby instead of taking one of these options. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO.
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@jessenicolas (8)
• Philippines
28 May 10
no!a baby is a gift from god you should respect the life inside of your body...just learn from your mistakes!
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
28 May 10
I wouldn't ever choose to have an abortion. I was offered an abortion at 36 weeks pregnancy on the grounds my son was severely disabled. I said no way and let my son be born. I even went ahead with my home birth. My son is now three years old. He isn't able to walk and he requires catheter care. Some people have an abortion for medical reasons and that it their personal choice. I would give my baby the chance to live. If I got a surprise pregnancy I would let my baby be born. If I conceived during an attack I would probably have my baby adopted. Every baby is an innocent one and deserves to live. I think abortion is morally wrong.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
29 May 10
I am 100% pro-choice(CHOICE people, not straight off abortion). I believe women should have the right to decide whether or not to keep their baby; I mean do you think it's "right" for a woman to give birth to a child knowing she wouldn't be able to take care of it? bringing a life into the world just to give it a miserable childhood, and hence a misfit adult?
That said, I also know someone who had an abortion and for five years afterwards she watched that baby grow up in her dreams. I'm not heartless and see why people would be agaist abortion, but at the same time I don't think ALL lives need saving.
@libramie (562)
• Philippines
28 May 10
NO, I disagree with abortion. It's a big sin. If you killed someone you're a murderer, and to a very innocent one. Take some precautions if you don't want to get pregnant and if its got accidentally don't abort it instead continue to nurture it and find the needy one, many want a baby who have not a chance to enjoy it.
@Jaluke (676)
• United States
28 May 10
I see the plus sides and negative sides to having an abortion. However, since I am a male and could never actually be in the position to have a baby the way that a woman could, I really don't feel as though I can have a whole lot of say in this matter. Who am I to say that woman should be able to or shouldn't be able to do something that I would never be able to do because of my gender?
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
28 May 10
I don't understand how men have been conditioned to believe they shouldn't be allowed to have a say in whether or not their child should be born or not. If you got a woman pregnant could you stand up and take responsibility for that child? Should a father who is willing to raise that child even if he would be a single father not be allowed to do so? Just because we women carry the child for 9 months in my opinion does not mean that the child's father should not be allowed to be involved and to raise the child if the mother is unwilling or unable.
I read a article put out by a man whose girlfriend (well ex-girlfriend the moment she chose to abort) went and had an abortion. He wanted the child, was willing to raise the child on his own and he was denied that right. When he attempted to get the child's remains from the abortion clinic he was denied even that, told that it wasn't a child and he had no rights that it would be simply disposed of. That child was a part of him as well and his parental rights were ignored to the point that he doesn't even have a grave to go to to mourn.
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@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
28 May 10
This is only my opinion:
I don't agree with abortion, aborting is a SIN if a person done that he/she is a murderer for me, Getting pregnant accidentally for me There is no such thing as accident in pregnancy they did it so they should be responsible for the consequences.
I really hate people who don't value life we only have one life, why do some people keep wasting it and others try to destroy it,
making a sin then when they get pregnant they will just kill it like animal, they should be put in jail forever.
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
28 May 10
I don't agree with abortion. I believe that life begins at conception and that aborting a baby is murder. I didn't abort even when I was 15 and had been raped and the state (I was a ward of the State) was pressuring me to abort I refused. THe stress ultimately caused a miscarriage, but I did everything possible to give that baby life. The child was as much a victim as I was and if no one else was willing to stand up for her I did to the best of my ability.
It is horrible in my opinion that there are government officials who attempt to force people especially young girls into having abortions. I detest the fact that so many seem to think it is freedom of choice unless you want to give the unborn child a chance at life.
@kae06_tigger (86)
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28 May 10
abortion is a big NO NO! the baby has nothing to do with the mistake of his parents. every child is gift and a blessing from God! so keep it and cherish it!
@TheIceman33 (347)
• Philippines
28 May 10
I totally disagree with abortion.. trying to eliminate a child that has nothing to do with what had happened. The choice was with the boy and a girl, making love but doesn't think about the effect of their action. Irresponsible and just plain stupid that killing an innocent child that they themselves had created. i must say, the two of them should be skinned alive.. I would volunteer to skinned them alive.
@MDG2211 (711)
• Argentina
28 May 10
I do not agree with the abortion, but it is necessary to do some exceptions, for example when the mother runs risk and in a violation.
It is a very complicated topic, but it would be necessary to put in the place of this woman who has been violated, and since it would be to have to choose for the life of your wife or of your son? It gives for a lot of polemic.
@calibarro (1)
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28 May 10
i am not agree why would i agree if i could kill my own child. first of all i have fear with god, second i love my own blood. If i had make love and i had a baby its my responsibility to face the problem and reality i cant run through my problem, even in just a snap my problem will be vanish,, but in my heart i will carry my problem ..forever.