do you think if a guy really liked you he would find time for you?
By deedeehall
@deedeehall (1144)
United States
3 responses
@kedralynn (980)
• United States
28 May 10
Yes of course. When you like someone, you want to spend time with them right? Why should guys be any different? My partner works long 12 hour days. But he still makes time to be with me. If a guy isn't making time to see a girl then he's probably not all that interested.
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
28 May 10
yes i do think you are so right it is just comon sense to see what is wrong.i guess i have just been lieing to my self.
@kedralynn (980)
• United States
28 May 10
Hey it happens. Sometimes we just want to believe so badly that someone truly feels for us as we feel for them. So we convince ourselves that they way they mistreat us is ok. But don't keep letting yourself get strung along. If he's not making time for you, it's time to move on and find someone who will make time for you. Because you deserve it!
@Jennlk84 (4205)
• United States
27 May 10
Yes. If a guy truly loves you or even if it's not to that level yet and he just really likes you and is interested in you then yes, he should be able to easily find time for you. If it's the beginning of a relationship and he can't find time for you now then I would think that wouldn't make the future look too good. I know that I will always come first in my husband's life. I'm his number 1 priority in life and he is mine. I just feel like that's a part of being in a committed, loving relationship. :-)
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
27 May 10
i am pretty much begining to agree with you. he is in law inforcement and says right now things are really busy and hard but i think this is kind of a red flag.
@JenBth (75)
• United States
27 May 10
Yes- absolutely. I have dated guys before where they would maybe not call exactly when they said, or have opted for going out with their friends or something instead of having a night with just us. These relationships did not last and looking back- we were not a good fit. I have also dated guys where it is just right and they love to be together as a couple. If a guy is really into you, he will make the time and you will not have a doubt in your mind how he feels. If you have to guess what he is thinking or feeling, or how into you he is- you may need to grow more as a couple, or it may not be the best fit. This is a hard realization to come to when you care about someone, but I think it is best to find out early so you don't spend more time and feelings when they are not as invested in the relationship as you are.
