is true love really out there?

May 27, 2010 5:06pm CST
we see it on tv all the time and me personally think its false hope, relationships are never like they are on the movies they are full of pain and grief and eventually novelty starts to wear off. there is apparently someone out there for everyone, well there is over a billion people out there so how can we find them if we are stuck in a dump town it seems impossible. we are brainwashed into thinking we will get 'our time' some day and wishing for special person but a lot of people grow up alone without anybody and the rest of the people just settle in average relationships. has anyone found the love of their life and for it to be like some kind of fairytale and lasted for years? i have never heard of anything like it
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6 responses
• United States
28 May 10
I met my husband when I was 30 and we have been together ever since...20 years and going strong. We are still in love...I know we are lucky.. when my daughter was in elementary school she was the only student who had both mommy and daddy living under the same roof. Maybe it is because we waited so long...and we are more sure of ourselves and what we wanted from a marriage. Not everyday is perfect (that would get boring..lol)...it is important to remember that no relationship is a given and that you must work on them daily.
28 May 10
thats sweet but i bet you are not always happy together that is how relationships work its give and take but i am glad you are happy but i dont like the idea of sometimes being happy and not i think i have watched too many disney movies and still waiting for prince charming
• United States
28 May 10
Sure there will always be difficult days....but those days just make you appreciate the good days even more Thank you for best response
28 May 10
i suppose i will probably understand the concept of love more in the future and that is ok :) it was a very good honest response
@karen1969 (1779)
29 May 10
Well, I have been happily with my husband for 13 years now, but I had a rocky road until I met him in 1997. I was married twice before, the first time I was just 20 and he was 22 and we only stayed together until our daughter was six weeks old. We married in Nov 89 and she was born in Oct 90 so we hadn't needed to get married, it was our choice. So I had two bad experiences but I think it was all valuable and it meant I was wiser when it came to getting together with my current husband.
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
28 May 10
True love really exists. It is hard to find true person. Your parents love you truelly. They never love you for a reason. The same with a some one special if he loves you, he will not have any reason to love.. I think but today it is hard to find true person to love. And this is the bitter truth of humanity.
@baby_EXPO (129)
• China
28 May 10
yeah, I believe true love is really exist in there. just something is not romantic as the movies situation. I remember a singe song: Is made even kissing to refer to the leading part? that's difference expression of true love. sometime just requst a warm kiss or embrace, the true love is exist.
• Philippines
28 May 10
true love is really out there but when time passes this love could grow or lessen. in a marriage couple starts very happy but in the midway of their marriage one or both will look for other thrill and spice. i can say a true love could fonder when the couple turned to be best friends as well.the movies and dramas that we watched are half false hope, because there's no relationship like a fairy tale.
• Norway
28 May 10
yes true love is out there you must just lock araund