Will you lie on purpose?
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
India
May 27, 2010 9:00pm CST
I was coming back from office and heard 2 friends talking about lying, one guy said that I told him incorrect information because he is not always good to me and many times he just ignore me. The other guy was good and he said that he will never lie for such reason to anyone.
I think the second guy was right. I will lie only if there is an absolute need and it will benefit me or someone without hurting anyone.
Will you lie on purpose for any reason?
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6 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 May 10
You're right. It's never good to lie just for the heck of it. I'd rather lie if It's needed like for instance my 6 yrs old cousin asked me where she came from. That's a good time to lie. I said she came from a magic well. :)
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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
29 May 10
Good one, this is a cute lie and may be many people might be facing this questions and answer would be similar.
Thanks for the response.
@nehmer (607)
• Philippines
28 May 10
I think it will depend on the situation.. if i had to lie so that i could hide the truth then so be it. i know it is a sin but there are critical situation where i must hide some truth. inorder for me to be able to escape from reality. it really depends on the person where he must decide which would he take.. to lie or to be honest with his/her self..
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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
29 May 10
Its ok if you lie in a situation when its badly needed to save someone and not harming anyone but lie on purpose is bad.
Thanks for teh response.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
30 May 10
Hi AjaySingh, to make someone to feel rather relief or to make certain situation easy and relaxed there is no harm to tell a white lie sometimes I suppose. Yeah, it's not encouraging to adopt such bad habit for sure if to lie all the time for taking own benefit. Our friends won't trust us anymore as they don't know when is the time we tell genuinely
Definitely no one would believe us anymore if telling lie frequently. Just like what we have learned from the typical story The Boy Who Cried Wolf during our childhood. How severe the situation is if we come across people who are good in sweet talk. I trust all those sugared words and honeyed phrases are huge lie. I would have gooseflesh when hearing someone taking advantage by uttering those sweet but lying words without turning a hair
Take care and happy posting
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
30 May 10
Telling lie to make someone happy or avoid some issues is noty bad at all. On purpose lie which harm others is not good.
Thanks for the response.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 May 10
The only two reasons I would lie are to protect a loved one fro harm and to keep a secret so a surprise would remain a surprise.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
29 May 10
That would be fine, protecting relation is priority.
Thanks for the response.
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@goddessjes (788)
• Philippines
28 May 10
hi AjaySinghBaghel.
well, everybody lies. no saint hasn't done this. it's ok to make this mistake. at times lying is for survival.
however, if a lie is done deliberately to hurt or cheat on another person, then it is not ok to lie.
but there is always a white lie that we call.
but generally, lying is the break of honesty.
@ernkjha (46)
• India
28 May 10
Hiccup, but i agree that we should never tell a lie, but sometimes situation bounds you to tell a lie to prevent some sudden shocks to a person on listening to the truth. we can tell them the truth, but slowly and slowly after seeing and analyzing the situation and the mood of the listener.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
29 May 10
goddessjes - No one is 100% honest and lie but telling lie with some agenda and telling lie to avoid some situation or save someone is totally different.
White Lie
hiccup - As you said, if you lie once, will have to lie many times to correct that and we become liers. Lies are lies no matter white or black.
Its good only when not causing any loss to anyone.
ernkjha If situation is like what you mentioned definitely there is no way to tell truth and we should try to save peoples from getting into problem.
Thank You for the response.
@vandana7 (100297)
• India
28 May 10
Hi Ajay, I like your honest admission that you lied. And I too admit, I lie. Sometimes to see that the other person is not hurt, sometimes to see that I am not hurt. Sometimes for gains. But lying so that the other person who is not good to me gets into soup is something I have not done so far. May be I didnt get an opportunity to do that. Would I do so? I dont know. I dont think so. My deals with god have always been give me this, and give me that. And not dont give this to that person, or do that harm to that person. There is a difference, and that would be my nature in this context. :)
BTW - I went to Pratibha's blog. :) Will write something soon enough. :) Drafting it. :)
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
29 May 10
I hope you do not get such chances when you have to lie on purpose :)
No one is Harishchandra but for cheap gain or just to make someone unhappy I would never lie.
Great - I would be the first to read your thoughts, if got to know first :)
Thanks for the response.