Is it possible for you to forget your lover if you both had physical relation?

just let it go .should i remember everyone who did such thing with me .does that make my emotion too abundant ?plus ,may i thought a girl with me before when i do the thing with my current girlfriend ?

You never forget, but you can move on! :)

i know for a fact that if my girlfriend did that to me i would go nuts i would drive to her house and tie her to a chair and talk to her about it until i get my answer because i need know a good reason before any of that bull happens to me since we have been together for so long a know like everything about each other

It would be hard for me to forget a lover whether we had a physical relationship or not. some feelings are just difficult to erase. Being physical with someone would add more emotion to the situation. i don;t know that we ever trulu forget a lover. they will always be buried somewhere in the heart.

Maybe it's hard to forget, but yeah you can move on... But there will come a time that you will compared him to your new partner, especially the bed-thing; who's the better lover, good in bed, and who's the lousy one.

if my lover ditchs me ,I’ll feel very sad,but if I was also feel boring about this relationship ,that's ok ,I will be happy with that,cause I won't bear that burden, and don't need to hurt him first~ but if I still love him so much I still could accept this ,cause the love between us has changed ,and he is not the one who loved me ,so I will be calm down and try to be better. that's my response, wish this could bring some help~~ Good luck~

Yes, eventually those memories fade. I have thought back sometimes and cant' even really remember what the first time was like it was so many years ago. I would have to be with that person to recollect those memories. We forget things when they are not in the working memory all the time. So it may take a while, but eventually I would say yes.

The sharp pain you feel when a relationship breaks up will fade with time and attention given to new relationships, but do you really want to forget any relationship you had in the past? What about the good times and the growth you achieved during that time. Aren't you a better person for having had that experience and won't it make your next relationship a more valueable one?

That is an important matter when it comes to forgetting a relation. I think it is difficult to forget a person when you had physical relation with him. Otherwise it won't be a difficult problem. I am a person who believes there is no point in worrying, caring, or thinking about somebody who don't care about your love or don't bother about the way he treats your feelings.

IF the relationship went on for that long then that would be downright mean. Anybody who tells you they have forgotten you after that is just aiming for a quick kill. If anybody said that then that someone must have been so affected that they'd want t hurt you so bad. BUt moving on might be a different thing. It is possible to move on.

Its very hard to accept such situation. I would share my personal experience..I went total crazy and insane and mad but sometime later when I was calm down I realized I was doing nothing but making it worst..I know it is the hardest thing to just "move on" but also the best thing to do.. If you really love someone, all you want her to be happy..

from my expriences, the person had reallly hurt me so even tho it took a few years i did forget him. i dont even remember what the feelings i had for him felt like.. which is weird to me !