SPEECH....Do you feel bored listening to a long speech?

Audience - Bored Audience!
@cloud31 (5809)
May 28, 2010 12:08am CST
Don't get me wrong my fellow myLotters, Its not right/good to feel this way but its really true. I feel so much bored for a speaker rendering a long speech. Since my childhood I can't stand longer to listen and pay attention in a long speech.How long should a speaker deliver his/her speech? In my point of view 20-45 minutes of speech is just fine for me and still very much alive and alert to listen,but longer than that I can't stay and don't expect that I can still understand what his speech is all about! Every time I'm listening a long speech I feel I want to nap in the middle and keep yawning .lol .He/she trying to send me to sleep. In this case I also avoid myself delivering a long speech as I'm afraid somebody will felt asleep or yawning in the middle of my words. How about you my fellow myLotters? Do you feel the same too? Or you are likely to be a good listener and very alert clapping hands when needed,.lol.What you usually do when you feel bored in a long speech? I'd love to hear from you my fellow mylotters? Thank you and Have a nice day!
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• Pakistan
29 May 10
obviously ifeel very bore listening to a long speech as while taking classes ...it becomes so unbarable..
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• Mexico
29 May 10
Hi prety best: When I was at school it happends to me in some cases when I don't like the subject but at the same time I enjoy the Human science and Political areas, they're so fascinating to me. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 May 10
Hi Cloud, I think for me it is more about the speaker and the content of the speech as to whether or not I stay awake or snooze rather than the length of it. I have listened to some really good speakers that are so fascinating and witty that I could have listened for 2 hours and not gotten a bit bored. More often than not though I'll start to day dream after about a half hour and it won't be long before I'm hiding behind my hair and sleeping. I remember in highschool, History was my sleeping class. I couldn't stand it. I actually did like learning about history but the teacher was just so boring and unenthusiastic that I could not stay awake.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
28 May 10
I think 20 minutes is enough. I am with you I dont like long ones. I have a short attention span, so they would lose me after 20 minutes. a great quote about giving speeches - Be sincere, be brief, be seated." – Franklin D Roosevelt.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
28 May 10
Hi cloud, how have you been ? You have mastered the art of starting the right kind of discussions that many members seem to like and respond to Coming to your topic - honestly I hate long speeches even if they are interesting. I feel that one should not go beyond 15 minutes, short and crisp! I remember my old college professor who would go on and on about every single matter on this earth which none of us would follow, but we had to sit and pretend as if it was enlightening - all the best cloud and happy mylotting
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
28 May 10
Yeah, it's not right but it's really boring. During my school days, we often have to sit in for speeches delivered by some well-known figures weekly and often, I have no idea what he/she is trying to present to me because it takes me like 5 mins before I start to drift off to my own world, only to be drag back when my leg started to cramp. And that's the torturing part, trying to concentrate on something I don't have interest in. I think a 15~30 mins speech is okay with some colorful slides combined with animation etc. But anything more than 1 hour, unless it's really interesting, else I would rather the presenter have the session with the teachers and staffs because they often have a Q&A session at the end and it's always them to ask. The only time I clapped, was when they finally say "Thank you."
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@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
28 May 10
it depends that how interesting that speech is.. and depends on the topic...
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Hi there Cloud 31! Well, the length doesn't matter to me as long as what the speaker is saying, is interesting and the place and situation is conducive for listening. I can't really listen to long speeches if it's too hot, too noisy, too crowded, when I'm hungry or preoccupied. I think that is normal for everyone else to feel that way. As for my speeches, I always try to keep them short and inject humor into it whenever I can to make sure that I get the attention of the listeners. A good but too long speech won't have the same effect with a good and short one since most people would be listening to it. If they won't listen to full speech, no matter what the contents are, you will have a hard time getting your message across.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hello nanayangel, That's very true It really hard for me to analyze and even put the speech meaning into my mind when something bothering me and especially if the speech is just too long.I can't hard bear with it. Thanks for your response.Happy myLOtting!
@pupupd (1515)
• India
29 May 10
Same here. I too cannot analyze things which are too boring for me. Specially if the speech is too long and that too on something which I am least interested in. There are times when I have to listen to such long speeches in get together parties and functions where old people meet and start blabbering about their days I find it very boring since I cannot relate to anything that they say.
@cloud31 (5809)
30 May 10
Hi pupupd! Exactly, Even how interesting the topic and the speaker whose delivering the speech it loss my interest once its getting long.I prefer a short but brief speech. Thanks for sharing!
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
29 May 10
I hate long speeches as well especially if the speaker does not have the skills to capture and hold the attention of his listners. I do not think its bad to feel like this. Its just a natural reaction. People given the task top deliver a speech must try to bear in mind the audience to which they will be delivering and try to make their presentation as interesting as possible. I have not lost my childhood dislike for long boring speeches. I have sat through long speeches before without even being aware of the length of the speech and not even wanting to get up and go take a nice breather. Thats the effect of a good speaker. I usually fall asleep or find something to am use me and the all time favourite, go take a breather. I get angry when I am bored to the point of falling asleep during a presentation. Its not easy to be a speaker but the reaction of the audience is real.
@pupupd (1515)
• India
29 May 10
Yes I too have sometimes attended speeches without knowing the time they will take. Once I attended a onsite call, this is not exactly a speech but a meeting kind of thing on phone like a conference, from US and they were discussing some things about a project which were out of this world for me, I was not getting even a single thing but I was asked to attend it and so I did, half of the time I was not paying attention and going through my mails on my PC while the call was on.
@pupupd (1515)
• India
29 May 10
I too feel very sleepy if the speech is regarding some topic which is very boring for me. I don't pay attention at all. I first start looking at other people if they are awake and listening as well. When I see that most of them are not paying attention and are lost in their own world, I too start getting drowsy and soon fall asleep with my eyes open, that is I start day dreaming. I yawn at times as well but cover my mouth so that the speaker doesnt notice how bored I am with his/her speech. I do nod and shake my head in agreement or disagreement when I see my fellow members doing it but actually I am not listening at all. I do those actions in sub-conscious mind. I pretend to laugh at their silly jokes also, because if I don't then people will think that I am too stupid to understand jokes inatantly. I don't want them to feel that way and get satisfaction that they are smarties
29 May 10
meh
• Philippines
28 May 10
Well sometimes i felt that way too,but for me it does not matter as long as it is interesting and the speaker also delivered it very well profound. I guess it depends on the listener, if he really wanted to hear what to speaker wanted to impart.
@cloud31 (5809)
25 Oct 12
Yes you are right,it also about how the speaker delivered her/his speech.And how the listener will take part of the speech. I guess Its just about the topics,speaker and the audience. Happy mylotting!
@dsplay5 (360)
• Bulgaria
28 May 10
About me, I can't listen more than 5 minutes a speech if it's not interesting, or if it's not related with something that concern me. The chance to yawn to begin to yawn is 99%. However, If the case is different I stand more. Maybe an hour and that's it.
@cloud31 (5809)
25 Oct 12
Oh that short? Five minutes still bearable for me but more than 30 minutes you will caught me up into something funny maybe sleeping or yawning. Better be patient a bit.LOL
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
28 May 10
honestly yes I do get bored when someone speech to long, I kinda feel sleepy when I'm in the situation, I remember my graduation day in high school the valedictorian sure has a long speech that some of my fellow student try planning about their outing.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hello xeroeight, That's right we feel bored when someone rendered and it usually useless at the midst we feel sleepy. So its better to minimize the speech to avoid boredom of the listener. Thanks for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
29 May 10
your welcome, having speech is good if its not that long but has really a good meaning and it can touch people heart that could be enough for a speech I guess.
• Philippines
28 May 10
I hate long speeches. I think that speeches should never exceed 30 minutes, the speaker himself would ask some audience participation or do any ice breaker. I listen to speeches though. I'm quite a good listener and often times I'm amazed by how others convey what they want to share with the crowd. It takes a lot of bravery to stand up in a crowd and I respect them by listening intently to whatever they have to say 'cause if I would be doing the speech, I would want to have my audience listen to what I have to say and hopefully retain some of my points in their mind. But definitely, the place, occasion and even time of day affects my tolerance for boring speeches. A good speaker can always make a boring topic interesting and enjoyable to a given crowd.
@cloud31 (5809)
25 Oct 12
I'm feel the same,long speeches more than 30 minutes are really boring especially with a speaker who doesn't know how to shorten the story and even no sense of humor. I must say I felt bored with a speaker who doesn't render the speech well. Thank you for having you here.Sorry for the delay of the response as well.
@iristacey (112)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Yes, I do feel the same way at certain instances. If the speaker is just reading and not really delivering a speech, it becomes boring. As much as I want to show respect to the speaker, feeling sleepy can't really be helped. But if the speaker is expounding on a very interesting topic and can catch the attention of the audience, it is the other way around. I get interested and puts my attention to the speaker.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
That's right, bored and sleepy, though of course we want to make a good impression as a good listener we can't helped but to feel much irritated. I hope I can have much more patience though! Interesting topic would be great but if its really long it gets me bored as well . Thanks for your response and happy mylotting!
• Lithuania
28 May 10
lol me too once when i was listening to a speech i almost slept in a chair :D
• Philippines
28 May 10
For me, it depends on the speaker and the topic itself. If the topic is interesting and the speaker knows how to handle the speech and that he always catch everyone's attention then I dont have any problem listening to a long speeches.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hello screwdriver, Right if the speaker will make a good presentation and have a bit humor on her speech and that would be better,otherwise it make no sense of listening and that makes me feel bored. Thanks for sharing and Happy myLotting!
• India
28 May 10
yes i do get bored.i am just being honest.me just a teenager and to listen to a senior person to give a long speech is so boring that i would rather listen to music at that time.but then we should give respect to the person who is giving the speech.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hi antony2best, Yes although we feel bored of the speech we still need to respect and make ourselves still till the speech is over. Thanks for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
28 May 10
IJ, i make sure never to attend any speaches at all. There is no way i can sit still for long. I would either fall asleep or start irritating those around me. TATA.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hello my angel, Then better pull me away with those occasions that consists of long speeches .I'd rather help you to irritate those people around and so the speaker get destructed.kidding! Thanks for sharing.Have a nice day ahead of you
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
28 May 10
You have pointed out a real fact. Long speech, specially if the speaker delver ordinary speech really a very boring. Any one can delivers a boring speech. It is a art to be a good speaker. Listening an ordinary long speech is one kind of punishment. There is a joke regarding this. A ordinary poet always annoys his fried circle reciting his ordinary poem. To avoid this boring situation all of his friend always try to avoid him. But the poet find out them and spoil the situation. So they find out a solution for this. One friend ask other one a question..... What is the toughest task for him? The poet answered.. life imprisonment. Another friend answered ... Listening poem. The poet question even then the imprisonment? The other answered.... Life imprisonment is relief from him from listening poem. From that day friends are relief from ordinary poem. I am not a good listener. Basically if the speaker deliver the speech where most portion is known to me already then it is like a punishment for me. But attractive speech has magic power to bind the listener. But all speaker have not that quality of speech delivery.
@cloud31 (5809)
25 Oct 12
I totally agree with you and most cases I felt bored in a long speech its about the topic its about how the speakers delivered their speech. Thank you for sharing your views and Happy mylotting!
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
28 May 10
A 15-20-minute speech is long enough. That leaves 10 minutes for questions/answers and you're done. Some of our Presidents need to learn that lesson.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hello Ms hofferp, Yeah that's supposed every speaker know how to limit their speech to avoid audience feel bored with them. Thanks for sharing and Good day!
@chuacx (95)
• Philippines
28 May 10
for me, if the speaker talks for more 1hour, i would really be irritated because i'm the type of person who couldn't stay long in one place. even if i'm sitting, i feel so uncomfortable, but i can't do anything for it is too rude or disrespectful if i stand while the speaker is still talking.
@cloud31 (5809)
28 May 10
Hello chuacx, That's normal to feel irritated, as well feeling uncomfortable but of course we can't show that to the speaker even how uneasy we are we still sit still and that make more irritable. anyway 1 hour is really too long for a speech! Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting!