I have low tolerance for loud people

Your situation is "ghrr". If I was on your place, maybe I would try to tell her something (by the kind way). I would try to understand how would she react if I tell her something like that, what's her character... You know what I mean. I'd show her some signs... There is no way for talking with the boss... I find 3 main solutions: 1. You tell her something, show her some signes, or you're cold with her when she asks.. 2. You try to hold your nerves, you're "pas", you become more tolerant, and maybe later you'll get used with this and this will not be a problem anymore... 3. If you really can't stand talk with the boss, or just leave this job. Right now Nothig other is crossing my mind. I Hope this is useful.

Hey! if i were in your shoes , by now i would have told her very politely and friendly to speak in a lower volume :-) .. Its pretty simple, anyways you are vexed, so you just go to her, be assertive, don't laugh or don't have a care-free attitude, Just feel comfortable and openly tell her in a soft tone, " Mam, we are attracting too much attention while we are into an discussion, kindly, if possible, speak softly." I hope this helps and sorts out your problem . All the best dear .

You are lucky for landing a nice and terrific job but then you are not so lucky with your co-worker. Anyways...if that is really her attitude then you have to be patient a bit and bear it all. Then befriend her and get her close to you so that if she already trusted you then maybe you can ask her politely to lower her voice a little bit low. Me too...I can't stand loud big mouthed people they will give me head ache. Bu I can stand noisy music such as metal and hardcore new wave and punk as well. Just don't give me a noisy coworker or i will go crazy.

I am not crazy about loud people either. The job is more important so try to remember that you only have to be around her while you are there. It's not going to be fun but hopefully you can move up and away from her in time. Take care.

All of first wish you congratulations ans All the best for your new Job. Now towards the subject:- Just try to ignore it as far as you can, when your tolerance cross, just make a blast. once you will do it they may calm for while.

OMG!!!! WHAT? you've gotta be kidding me? LOL Yes, you might say I'm a "Loud & Proud" woman. All you soft talkers out there need to pipe up, and go along to get along. We are the kind of people that get things done, people hear us and we never do without. I would be very careful how you proceed here, you are the "newbie" and she isn't (or from I got out of ur letter) So, if you don't want to send out a bad vibe to her then you need to adjust. or quit. I come from a big family and you had to talk loud to be heard over all the other kids, but I must say my husband is an only child and is wayyyy more soft-spoken (guess opposits attract) we balance each other somehow. My advise to you is to find a job where you don't need to work closely with other people, cuz if this is driving you nuts then you'll continue to be unhappy. CHEERS!

Loud people don't really bother me, because all they usually do is end up making themselves look like jacka$$es. However, I have a very low tolerance for STUPID people. The more I am around people, the more I like my puppy dogs hahaha

I wonder if it might be possible for the supervisor of your job to move you to a different seat. I won't suggest moving the other person unless she has been there for less time than you've had. I know that when I was working outside the house I would request to not work with certain people and I would also request different seats based on people that were too loud. If this doesn't work for you, then I don't have any other suggestions.

I can tolerate loud people so i probably wouldn't be thinking of leaving the job. As for you, i suggest you ask her to keep it down. She'll most likely understand you. If she doesn't then you have a big problem: a loud chic who has social issues. Lol. :)

It sounds like you are discibing my wife. My wife did get her hearing checked and found out she is loosing her hearing gradually. My wife like to listen to loud music. She mentions that that is what she is use to. She is now learning to turn the volume down on the tv, and also in her speaking. I mention to her several times that we are next to each other you don't need to talk so loud. Sometimes people do not realize what they are doing and it needs to be brought to their attention. Mention to her while we are at work could you talk less loudly because you are cutting in on my personal space along with impeding my right to privacy. Or mention that to your supervisor while trying to be as friendly as possible to not upset people, but people should take it as constructive critism, which is looking out for both your and her best interests. I hope all works out well for you!

If I were you I would just stick to concentrating on your work and just try to block her out a little bit to make her more tolerable. Unfortunately you just have to accept otther people for the way they are.

I have high tolerance for loud people but not with someone who talks all day and continue to asking and asking so many questions, I'm the one who get tired answering her/his question. I guess you still have to give it a try and try to show her what you don't like in a manner that wouldn't hurt her that much.

Help might be,you put some headphones on your ears