What has been going on with me latly
@strawpurple6763 (372)
United States
May 28, 2010 9:32am CST
My boyfriend got out of jail 27th of March 2010. And it has been one big fight after another. It seems nothing I do makes him happy. He is not following the rules that he has too for probation. So sooner or later they are going to catch him. I have been taling him to all kinds of doctors to find out his problem.
4 responses
@chickabee (119)
• United States
7 Jun 10
Here is my advice to you: Run, don't walk, away from this situation. It is not good for you. Fighting all the time is very stressful and unhealthy. If he is not following the rules he will get in more trouble. That is inevitable. There is a better, calmer life out there for you. Do yourself a kindness and leave this man.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
3 Jun 10
there is an old saying you can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink it. so another word you can take your b/f to all the doctors in the world but if he dont admit he have issues then its a waste of time
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@goddessjes (788)
• Philippines
28 May 10
hi there strawpurple.
how are you holding up girl? were you able to reach out to your bf already?
it must be quite tough being in your shoes. just hang on to dear patience and hope,k?
has your bf even gone to any therapy sessions? there are probably numbers that you can get from your local directory. but you have to be disciplined in guiding him in this. i hope he cooperates.
is he open to getting help? cuz if he's not, no matter how much you try, you'll end up defeated. i hope that he would consider your concern for him to be better especially after his experience in jail. plus it would help your relationship if he does his part. besides, everything you do is for the better of you two.
i hope you can still manage. =) best of luck to you. i wish that things will be better for him, for you and for you both.
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@arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
28 May 10
You're in such hard situation, I hope you manage to go trough smoothly, me myself don't know what to do either. Ask for GOD's help, he'll guide you.
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