Do you feel that you are the same person you were ten years ago?
By Pose123
@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
May 28, 2010 6:59pm CST
I sometimes look at some of the articles,stories etc.that I wrote ten or more years ago and ask "did I really write that"? I'm sure many of you have had similar experiences, not necessarily with writing, but with whatever it is you do for work or as a hobby. Life is a teacher and I feel that it would be sad if we thought the same way today as we did ten years ago. Do you agree?
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@MRSSTEVENS (125)
• United States
29 May 10
My life is soo much different than 10 years ago. I would have a hard time believing anybody who would say that their life was the same as 10 years ago. The whole world has changed so much, that if we didn't change with it we wouldn't survive
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
29 May 10
Hi Mrs Stevens: I agree with you. The world has changed a lot too. In fact we forget this process because we just live our lifes and so we don't notice that the world never stops and some things are here but they won't be with us forever. That's a little sad but at the same time it makes part of natural process. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
29 May 10
Hi Pose: I agree with you. We change in a lot of aspects, specially when we are growing up. Now I'm 22 so ten year ago I was just 12 and I've definetly changed a lot these last ten years. When I think about the way I act I'd say that in some aspects I'm a better person now but in some others, at that moment I haven't passed for some bad situations that I have to pass through so it depends the way we see our past if we think about it as a positive or negative moment. But we definetly change. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day.
ALVARO.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 May 10
Hi starsailover, Thank you for sharing this and you are still very young. However, you appear to have a good attitude toward life and that is very important. We never know what life may throw at us but remember that there is a reason for everything that happens.If you are like most people you will probably fall down a few times, but if you always remember to get back up again, nothing can defeat you. You've seen a lost of changes and you'll see more. Enjoy life my friend. Blessings.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
30 May 10
Being only 22 just think what you have to look forward to. However you have the benefit of youth and if you keep your head on straight another ten years you'll be able to look back and say, "I did it my way".(smile, from Frank Sinatra's "MY WAY")
Take care young man and have a great life . You're headed down the right path.
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@Beautyfactor (1512)
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29 May 10
No I am a totally diffferent person to what I was ten yearts ago and I put that down to the fact that I am now a mother, a wife and much more of a responsible individual now than I was 10 years ago. Back than I was just 22 years old and I had just bought my first house, I was out working and partying at the weekends. My life now could not be more different.
I do agree with you that experience is a teacher and I do think my mind is much more open and questions things a lot more than it used to.
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@charylady (419)
• Philippines
30 May 10
staying the same way today as ten years ago i think is not possible - and i don't mean just physically. we all go through everyday experiences and whether we like it or not (or whether we are aware of it or not) those experiences impact our lives. we learn from those experiences and we change because of them. hopefully the changes make us better persons.
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@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 10
yeah i do think like that..it's because of my pictures..i look kinda chubby in my school years and i could not believe all my friends were ok with that!! i mean no one told me to get a diet or cut on my eating habit..i don't knwo whether they were being nice or what..but i hate my look at that time..but sometimes it's also funny..don't you think so?
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@webzap (884)
• Philippines
29 May 10
It is just a feeling that you are the same person ten or so plus years ago, that is in terms of thinking, work habits, attitude, and whatever you did in the past. But as you age, your body weakens and although you feel you are still strong, but actually you are not. Age matters, of course.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 May 10
Hi Mirita, Thank you for commenting and I agree our experiences make us what we are today. I too have thought about the idea of being able to go back with the knowledge that we have today but maybe it wouldn't be as good as we think. We'd make a lot of changes and how would these changes affect us and others involved? There is probably a good reason why it doesn't work that way. Blessings.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
30 May 10
You do mean the "GOOD" ones don't you? Because there are some experiences I would rather not have repeated.
Pose123 I feel the same way. At the time one's actions may have been right for that moment in time however at another time, say 10 years in the future, that same action or response might not be appropriate.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 May 10
Hi savypat, I feel exactly the same way and I think that we will be out of here once we've learned all that we can in this life time. I don't mean that we will know it all but have gone as far as possible under our present circumstances. Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
30 May 10
More importantly as previously stated, we learn from our mistakes and hopefully we do not repeat them. I had an American football coach who would say "It's alright to make a mistake; Just don't make the same one twice." Hence ten years later I can actually say I haven't repeated mistakes of the past but have made a "whole new batch of them". Each one has really been a learning experience; and "LIFE GOES ON"!
@AleaUn (23)
• Serbia And Montenegro
29 May 10
I must say I AM the same. Well, OK, not completely. I'm smarter, but I have the same feelings, thoughts, things that I like, hobbies... I am the same all my life. When I was 3, 10, 20, and now, 31... What I was as a child. I liked the same things all my life. Primary school, final work, I have to write ten pages... I wrote 250!!!! A dissertation:) Faculty, 15 years later, write 8 pages for the final seminar... again the same... I liked to draw, paint, I like it now... I adored reading all my life... I loved medieval and classic music as a child already, I adore it now... Politicians couldn't trick me with lies then, cannot now... I wear black all my life... I never wore women clothes...
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@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
30 May 10
I can't believe that. Nothing in nature stays the same. Since you are "human" that means you too. For example your physical appearence from when, as you say, you were 3 ...to now.
Along with the physical changes I'm sure your thought patterns changed. For example the way you viewed the world then I'm sure is different from now. (interest in world affairs, things you have done or said now that you would not have done or said 10 years ago for example).
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Definitely not the same person. I was 16 ten years ago and I was really young. I was demanding and I never stopped until I get what I want. I was demanding in a way that I was pushing people around and that's not really good. I was young and stupid, I didnt know any better of course. But a friend taught me a lesson about that. I was hurt when my friend taught me that lesson but I was still thankful for him when that incident happened cause it made me what I am today.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
29 May 10
Hi p3ks626, I like what you say here, you were hurt at the time yet you are thankful for it today. That is why you are a different person today. The experiences that we have every day help shape our lives but we can be thankful for them or we can be angry about it. If you had remained angry you would not be the person you are today. Thank you for sharing. Blessings.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Yes I agree with you. I am pretty sure I'm not the same person ten years ago. I have lots of good and bad experiences that shaped me to the person I am now. I learned a lot of lessons that changed me to a better person. Of course I also develop bad habits but overall I think I'm a lot better person now.
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@JuicyMentality (56)
• United States
29 May 10
Yes and no. I still love fashion but I don't dress the same. I love all the music that I liked then but I also have a new found appreciation for alot of different stuff now. I would say the biggest difference would be that 10 years ago I took alot of crap off of people just to keep the peace and now I have no tolerence for drama.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
31 May 10
Hi gabs, That's wonderful, your life has changed for the better. We all change as we learn from our experiences but some more than others.Hopefully things will continue to change and you will be a happier, healthier person when another ten years has passed. Blessings.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
30 May 10
Absolutley! I look back ten years and I wish I could turn back the hands of time and do some things differently and others I would do the same. I probably should have persued writing more than I did. Who knows I might have been good or not.
Am I the same person? I would have to say that quote, "with age comes wisdom", really does make the difference between young and "dumb", and shall we say, more expeirienced and wiser. Now I take more time to reason things out rather just react to them. The situatuation makes no difference. I just slow down and look at all the particulars of something before I "act" and not "re-act". The second way I am different is, and this is probably the most important lesson for me, to "Think" before I "act".
You are right about life being a teacher. It's up to each individual to benefit from the lessons and adjust there lives accordingly.
So Yes, I look back in my life and ask myself "Did I really do or say that"?
Don't we all?
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 May 10
Hi bigal3, I agree and I expect we all say that but just remember it's never too late, many people publish their first book late in life. I know that I'm not the same person that I was ten or even five years ago and I would not want to be. As long as I'm here I expect and want to be learning. I'm not sure that we should have regrets, every experience has a lesson for us. Thank you for adding to this discussion. Blessings.