Dont Trust

I have had friends that have turned out to be more like the enemy.I think there are alot of friends out there that you have known years that end up either using you or even back stabbing you.I tend to not tell people things that i do not want them to tell anyone else that way there is alot less agro.

some people just prefer to be loners and have no friends, only a select few like your husband who you interact with. its not suprising you have trust issues after your friends have disapointed you, that has happened to a lot of people but it effects people worse than others. if you are happy the way you are then stick with it but as you get older people are more mature and and there will not be as many people that are childish and backstab.. but as you said at least you have your husband and if thats all you need then fairplay.. im not like you i'm a mug and forgive people

Because of what you have encountered you can say that. You generalize people as same as your friends cannot be trusted. Not all people like that but you have your own will to choose whether you treat her as friend or not. We need to have someone close to as the saying goes " No man is an island." We are not happy if we could not talk to anybody. I know some of people that don't like many friends as they have bad trials and they cannot forget it. So they avoid anybody . Even though your relatives dare to used you. So better to know first before trusting anyone.

I do not have many friends.But if I need help,sure these friends are close. It is not mandatory for a person to have friends. You must not isolate yourself if you know virtual friends here on myLot

Your not alone. For some reason, specially women there are a few that can be trusted if any left at all! Their your friend today and your enemy tomorrow. I say stick with your husband. Being a loner is not necessarily a bad thing. Its actually better that way most of the times!

well your husband is all you really need if you want to find freinds go to the bar or somewhre like the mall but trust me im also like this but i manage to find freinds for being nice and a good person and being my self so i hope this helps (oh and lisen to the song from metallica "sad but true"

hi thats sad as its really wonderful to have friends who care about your and stand behind you. myroommate is so sweet and kindly that I had to be friends with here, and shes never betrayed me. do not throw out the baby with the dishwater. all people you meet are not going to be the kind to screw you. do not always expect people to do you in.my dad was like that and it made him sour and grumpy and not fun to be with.You have to trust a few people surely. I am a nice person, elderly but I do no harm to anyone and I really treasure the mylotfriends I have made here. I am sad for you as we all need friends real friends I mean, those who like you and love you and will stick up for you. Hope you find a few people you really can trust.