Do you mind if your woman is a provider more reliable than you ?
By CityAnt
@CityAnt (16)
China
May 29, 2010 7:38pm CST
In such diversifying society, ladies now can earn much more money than the gentlemen do. And it is especially not a unusual case between either lovers or couples. As to this, some complaints were formed from a few of female netizens. They, who is with independent economic excellent and is a reliable provider, really hope that their men can shoulder the vast majority of housework, since these income-maker have been fed up in the workplaces. However, the gentlemen don't think so. they accused such requests from their women are nothing but tough tasks and hush crack down on their self-esteem. Hence, they created an ever-widing gap between each other, and led to the disharmony.
Dear friends, if things like that happened on you, what is your first consideration ?
7 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
30 May 10
Of course i mind. It's not some competition or anything for me. It's just that i'm a guy. I have to earn more than her. I'll be happy for her if ever she earns more than me but I'll also feel guilty that i'm not earning more than i should.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
30 May 10
Of course i mind. It's not some competition or anything for me. It's just that i'm a guy. I have to earn more than her. I'll be happy for her if ever she earns more than me but I'll also feel guilty that i'm not earning more than i should.
@vokial_voc (172)
• Indonesia
30 May 10
i am a man and i don't mind as long as she can balance the working, taking good care of the children, and her health, i can help to do some of housework cause i don't want the one i love get exhausted and forgot her health just because of work
@ohiocy (214)
• Malaysia
30 May 10
Hmmm.. I can understand how they feel, even for me I would feel uneasy for my lady to be a better provider. That's because at the start of the relationship I would have mentioned that I would do everything that I can to provide her and to be her provider. Nonetheless this is not something that I would argue with her about because I understand the fact that a successful way of a relationship needs support. And that's what I'm going to give. But that doesn't mean I will do nothing to make her the sole breadwinner rather I will try to find ways to be a provider as well.. Because with the world nowadays, nothing is for sure, better to have a backup plan.
@iristacey (112)
• Philippines
30 May 10
As a woman, I do not see the financial aspect of having the woman earn more than the man. What matters more is the love, trust, respect and happiness you have in each other's company. If a man mind this, then he is egoistic. This issue must be discussed and have them gauge if they are to be affected by the situation. I think, it is better if the man keeps an open mind about this thing and keep it cool. He should not be eaten by pride.
@cloud31 (5809)
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30 May 10
I'm a woman and I hope It will be alright for me to share my views here.I hope man won't mind that his girl is a better provider than him.You are partners and it does make sense that no matter whose doing well financially its countable as yours too.A partner should accept the fact that in some circumstances there is always a difference and should feel glad about the accomplishments of others and not minding how great and reliable provider is the woman.
Good day!
