Jesus was married!? What's your opinion about that?

May 30, 2010 7:54am CST
Hell0 all of you! Guess that we all have heard about this theory/myth that Jesus Christ wasn't actually single, but he was married for Maria Magdalena( I am not sure, have I spelled it right in English). Well, I have heard many things about it and many people have different opinions, but what do you people think about all that!? Powered by Phoenix8606
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@max1950 (2306)
• United States
30 May 10
After Jesus is crucified and it shows us who Jesus may have been married to. St. Mark, Chap. 16, verse 1. "And when the sabbath was past, Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James and Salome, had bought sweet spices, that they might come and anoint him." Now by Hebrew law the ONLY women who can anoint a man are family members. For Mary Magdalene to even attempt to anoint Jesus would be unthinkable under Hebrew law, unless she was married to Jesus. So it seems much more likely through this one verse that Jesus and Mary were married.
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• Canada
30 May 10
I agree with you Max. A lot of people have the belief that he never married because of some expectation of "purity". Just as many believe that Mary never had any other children. Jesus lived as a man, and more importantly, as a Hebrew. Tradition would expect that he married at some point in his life. As for it being Mary Magdalene that he was married to, it was also eluded to while Jesus was on the cross, as Jesus referred to his mother also being Mary Magdalene's mother. Jesus said to Mary, "Woman this is your son." Then said to his disciple, "This is your mother." When a woman married she left her family for her husband's family, thereby making his mother his wife's mother also.
31 May 10
well, MAX, it really sounds true and logical, and I have never known about this chapter from the Bible. I only hope we won't revolt the people here with these thoughts! Powered by Phoenix8606 Yes, CynergyDiva- I also think that people don't accept it just because they think it is purer, but marriage is actually something right, something what unite the people. Powered by Phoenix8606
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
31 May 10
Hi max1950! Do you have any references of the "Hebrew law the ONLY women who can anoint a man are family members?" Thanks!
@camomile07 (1420)
• Germany
30 May 10
This question contains an interesting point, but maybe we never will know the answer certainly. Many people believe that Jesus might have been married, but if it has got any importance, the Bible would have mentioned it. The main message of the Bible is not based on the personal live of Jesus or his interests though on fulfill God's will.
31 May 10
hell0 there! well, I also guess that we will never know the answer , but as MAX have mentioned me in the first post there is a chapter in the Bible where you can find a citation that actually Mary has anointed Jesus, which in Hebrew law is allowed only to family members which means that they could be married. Powered by Phoenix8606
• India
3 Jun 10
Im a firm believer of Bible and it says, He was a perfect human without a trace of sin in him. He was never married, whose example, paul and several other disciples of him imitated.
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• India
6 Jun 10
Phoenix, Marriage isnt a Sin! Its the best way not to sin. Get married and be happy is what God wants for all humans, but many arent ready to marry, rather live-in. Anyways, What I meant was, as recrded in teh Bible, Paul states.." You young men, its better if you are single and serve God, rather then be married, but if you are burning in the desire of flesh, its better to be married than to Sin without it." So the point here is, being married is for the sake of our humanly desires, but as recommended, if we are strong enough, we can be single and benefit in serving God full pledged. So my whole point is.." Jesus was a perfect human, without any human weaknesses or desires, his sole interest was to Serve God and make his kingdom known. Under such circumstances, he couldnt have thought about marriage. No where in the Bible it mentions he was married, he knew his purpose and acted accordingly as he was sent to this earth for a purpose.
11 Jun 10
Yeah, it definitely was with a purpose! Powered by Phoenix8606
5 Jun 10
well, why you all think that marriage is a sin!? I just can't understand it :) Powered by Phoenix8606
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
31 May 10
Hi phoenix, I never heard that rumour and not sure that I believe it. I have read some on people that have researched the life of Jesus. Jesus being married was not in any of the literature I've read. Do you have any links to support this? I guess it would be possible but do we really have any proof?
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31 May 10
hell0 SId( who is not from Ice Age) well, I haven't read sucha thing too, but I have only heard it as a rumor/theory and also watched something on TV. I have no links, but guess that it is easy to find it in internet1 Powered by Phoenix8606
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
31 May 10
Ok. I'll just add it to my list of things to look up. Signed, Sid(not from Ice Age)
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2 Jun 10
have you found it!? Powered by Phoenix8606
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@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
31 May 10
I have read somewhere about his book the claims that Jesus is not actually a single person. I can't say the name of the book and the author and I may get it wrong but then it's quite a popular topic. I don't want to believe it because ever since when I am young I have read in the bible that Jesus never marry. But who can say the real truth. I was not born yet when Jesus born in to this world and therefore I can't say if it's wrong or the truth. As for the Bible also it has been re-written many times and who knows what mistake and conspiracy is written there.
31 May 10
yes, we actually can only suggest was he married or not, but the question here is what do you people think about that and how would you react if you hear that he was married, because as I see there are some people here, who got really angry on me adn some others here, because we thought he may be married! Powered by Phoenix8606
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
31 May 10
This is a great discussion phoenix! I think it doesn't matter whether Jesus married or not. Whether it was the sinful Mary Magdalene or some other girl we don't know about. I neither believe of disbelieve. It doesn't matter. What matters is that you believe in God. It didn't affect my faith. It never had. It never will. For some who are arguing that the bible doesn't say this and that, here's a piece of my mind for you. The bible was compiled by people. There were many accounts of what happened on Jesus' time. but only 4 apostles had theirs published in the bible. there were 12, where's the remaining 8? What's in the bible may be true. It is true for me. BUT for me, whatever's not in there should not be regarded as false. Like I said, MEN compiled the bible. It was their bias that's inside the bible. What's compiled in the bible is only what those men want us to believe. I'm not saying the bible is wrong, I'm just saying it MAY BE incomplete. I'm not saying that Jesus never married, I'm also not saying that he did. All I'm saying here is that let's have an open mind. Who are we to say what is and what's not in Jesus' life? We weren't there to confirm. What we have now is the fruit of the biases of the Roman Empire. That's why it is called "Roman Catholic" (and for those other Christian sects, you all came from Roman Catholic). Would it also matter if Jesus were married? would you lose faith in Him and in God the Father? Would it change anything? NO IT WOULDN'T. Sure it would challenge the dogmas of the church, but would t change your faith? would it change your life?
31 May 10
Thank you KnicNax yes, for me it also doesn't matter but as you can see with your own eyes there is a lot of "matter: for many people here, who are also ready to spit on you because you have told he was married. well I am not the one who can judge people, but also think that others should not judge me too, and as you say Bible may not be wrong, but it also can be, because it is written not by God, it is written by human's hand and human can make mistakes, right? Powered by Phoenix8606
31 May 10
WEll, Jamed, what will amaze you with the Orthodox church, because I am an Orthodox maybe that our priests are allowed to get married!? Powered by Phoenix8606
@urbandekay (18278)
30 May 10
There is no evidence to support that and it would certainly have been mentioned in the gospels all the best urban
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@urbandekay (18278)
31 May 10
The first post here, contains nothing of the sort all the best urban
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2 Jun 10
Look better my friend :) Powered by Phoenix8606
31 May 10
well, guess that maybe you are right- but in the first post here, you can see an "evidence" that it may be true :) best wishes to yuo too Powered by Phoenix8606
@jdyrj777 (6528)
• United States
2 Jun 10
As far as i know there is no scripture to back that up. Untill there is i do not believe it.
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@jdyrj777 (6528)
• United States
4 Jun 10
That is true and im sure if he was it would have been recorded in the Holy Scriptures like other marriages were.
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2 Jun 10
well, I guess it is so- no one can believe it if there is actually really no evidence that it was so! Powered by Phoenix8606
5 Jun 10
I guess so :)
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
2 Jun 10
...but standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother and his mother's sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdelene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, "Woman, behold, your son!" Then he said to the disciple, "Behold your mother!" And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home. John 19:25-27 ESV Jesus though about the welfare of His mother. Wouldn't He do the same for His wife, if He had one? There is nothing concerning the welfare of His wife because, He didn't have one.
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5 Jun 10
well, maybe this passage from the bible really gives us some answers did he or didn't he have a wife!
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
31 May 10
hog·wash (noun) 1. refuse given to hogs; swill. 2. any worthless stuff. 3. meaningless or insincere talk, writing, etc.; nonsense; bunk.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
3 Jun 10
Hi phoenix8606! What I'm saying is that there is no sound basis for saying that Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene or anyone else. If there was any such evidence it would have surfaced in the first century.
2 Jun 10
well, i just don't get that :) Powered by Phoenix8606
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 May 10
The Bible never tells that Jesus got married,and i believed that he was never married. And,that,those who were saying that Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene were just trying to inject confusion to other believers.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 10
i believe in the Bible. Jesus is not a mortal human being,he is the son of GOD,sent by His father,the God the Father for mankind to repent,and not to get married and have family. Whosoever wrote that Jesus got married never knows what he is saying.
31 May 10
Hell0 Jaiho! well, guess that you may be right, and if he really wans't married maybe people only want to "inject" some confusions to the ones that believe in Him and in that that he wasn't married! Powered by Phoenix8606
• United States
31 May 10
YO! LET'S STOP THE BS RIGHT NOW!! What TIME did JESUS have to get MARRIED W/O THE 12 DISCIPLES KNOWING IT??? GIVE ME A BREAK!!! Those kind of "TALL TALES" are just another way NON-BELIEVERS try to make people think GOD Almighty DOESN'T EXIST...DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE!!
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@andy77e (5156)
• United States
5 Jun 10
Ah... there are people like that on any side of any issue. You might not know that given you are not a christian, but I've been publicly accused of started the crusades, and attacked by non-theists because I was intolerant. I've even been called a "flat-earther" whatever that means, but I wager it must be some childish insult of some sort. In any case, I don't blame all 'real-atheists' as forcing everyone else to believe their views, or as insulting everyone who doesn't support what they say, even though some, possibly many, do. The broad brush stereotype works both ways my friend.
• United States
13 Jun 10
Look, ANYBODY that tells U that WE R ALL "COUSINS/DESCENDANTS OF MONKEYS" IS A FOOL...PERIOD!LOL
2 Jun 10
well, I was just curious to know what do you people know about it. I have never thought to put your faith to the test, but BTW i guess that the only the real believers, only the real Christians won't pay any attention to that, and will just answer me with yes or no, and won't try to insult or force the others to believe that it is or isn't true. Powered by Phoenix8606
• India
2 Jun 10
No Jesus was never married. There is no mention of it in the Bible. Jesus had not come into this world to get married and raise a family. His purpose was to fulfill God's will, i.e., to suffer and die for the sake of our sins. There are some people who try to disparage Jesus' image by saying all sorts of things about him. One person this this board even mentioned that Jesus' mother Mary was raped by Pontius Pilate and Jesus was Pontius Pilate's offspring. I wonder how people allow their imagination to take off without wings. I feel sad for them. They are certainly on the road to perdition. God has assigned a place for them in the dungeons of Hell. Amen.
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2 Jun 10
well, i have never read such a thing about the rape, and I also thing it is something like a desecration and people should really think before acting, but i just was curious to know what you people actually know about it! Powered by Phoenix8606
• India
3 Jun 10
Please read complete narrative on this subject at http://www.angelfire.com/mt/talmud/jesusnarr.html
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
3 Jun 10
Hi phoenix, i never read or heard that Jesus got married. I am feeling so sad to read all other responses. Without knowing about oneself should not comment. Should have a perfect evidence and then say with the proof. God bless you.
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5 Jun 10
hell0 there jotomy! well, yeah, some people here behave really unnatural, just because they think they know the truth! Powered by Phoenix8606
• United States
1 Jun 10
That is the synopsis of the book "The Da Vinci Code" It follows symbologist Robert Langdon and Sophie Neveu as they investigate a murder in Paris's Louvre Museum and discover a battle between the Priory of Sion and Opus Dei over the possibility of Jesus Christ of Nazareth having been married to Mary Magdalene. It is rather intriguing and certainly gives some food for thought but the book is classified as fiction. The book and the movie were very popular.
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2 Jun 10
WEll, I am really not sure where have I read it for the first time, but it definitely wasn't in the book or in the movie. I have never connected that with Da Vinci's Code" i even have forgotten about it. Powered by Phoenix8606
@patms1 (521)
• United States
31 May 10
I have no problem with it. I also believe it. I don't have to believe in the Virgin bith or any of the other things we are taught. I do believe in his teaching and if we follow them all the other things are just words.
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2 Jun 10
well, maybe you are right- maybe we just have to follow the simple rules that guide us to the better life, and not think about other things like that, which are actually not so important I guess. Powered by Phoenix8606
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
1 Jun 10
I think that those people are not interested in reading the bible and finding out what it actually says. They only want to stir up trouble for Christians.
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2 Jun 10
well, maybe there are really people like that, but I think that not all of them are the way you say they are, and I also think that there are even Christians who ask themselves the same question but are afraid to ask it in some public, because they will reject as the people here in this discussion, as you can see by your own! Powered by Phoenix8606
31 May 10
ask 2 who goes to church they will know
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31 May 10
I guess that the most here do, but still don't know it :) Powered by Phoenix8606
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
30 May 10
Interesting. The question one must ask is: Does it really matter one way or the other?? It doesn't really change anything. I also heard another one that Christ really survived then moved to India. Hmmm???
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31 May 10
well, i know there is no difference, but I just was curious to know about it, althougth I am not a religious person! Powered by Phoenix8606
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
31 May 10
If they could find just one verse in the bible that says Jesus married Mary Magdalene, I would believe then. Those are just hoax, probably influenced by Dan Brown or something. Of course if your foundation with Christianity is not that strong, you would believe anything that's been said to you about Jesus, all those lies.
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31 May 10
well, guess that it hasn't got anything to do with Dan Brown, because these theory is much much 'earlier" than he is. But why should we actually believe all the things in the Bible!? I know that I can sound like a blaser, but maybe the people who have written the bible thought the way other do- that marriage is a sin! Powered by Phoenix8606