Is it true that opposites attract? If opposites attract,,,, I don't understand.

I believe that opposites attract. My boyfriend is my opposite. He's outgoing and spontaneous and I'm not. We have different dreams and things we want to get out of life too. So, yes, opposites attract. The problem is, there needs to be something similar between them that binds them together or the relationship won't last. There will be too much conflict.

I think it is true that opposites always attract. Everything is made in two and opposites. Like charge, +ve and -ve, good and bad etc. Even in life, if two people have the same opinions on any topic then it will boring, they wont have anything to talk about because they share the same opinion. So its quite natural that people having different opinions are attracted to each other.

I think opposites attract when two people complement each other. One may lack something that the other may be able to fill. For instance, the guy is outgoing and the woman is an introvert. The guy could help the woman get out of her shell and the woman could also help the guy to be a little bit more introspective. When opposites clash, that may be a different story. However, disagreeing is not always bad. Sometimes, it's healthy as long as the disagreement is handled by people who are objective and are mature enough. They both should look at a particular issue from each other's point of view. If they cannot agree, then they do not have to be disagreeable. They can agree to disagree.

roleez yes and for the veryh good reason that we complement each other. I was shy, and my husband outgoing, I was moody and he was cheerful, I was meticulous in all money deals, he forgot to write down withdrawals from our family bank book.so i took over the bills and the bank account and so we filled in eachothers gaps and we loved and liked each other. we had a happy marriage for sure.

Yes. I've seen numerous cases like this one. As long as the couple has the same interest and opposite personality, then chances are it would be a long lasting relationship. When they have opposite personality, it complements each other. I have a friend who is pretty outgoing but his girlfriend is more of a stay in kinda person. He's pretty talkative, the girlfriend keeps quiet most of the time and listens. Both would compromise at times. Imagine if both of them are talkative, then nobody would have the chance to talk then! One interest brought them together, they met during a bowling tournament and have been together for the past 7 years.

I happened to find my soul like the life that I carry with me every day, every night, shopping or food .... My soul not find other girls, do not turn someone trample him ... But I found people whose souls alive go crazy come and steal a piece of mine many, a piece, and so let him, burned, waiting to rebuild ... I read "We are goddesses" sniffing each tab, I sat with tears in my eyes and I smiled a drag sometimes, the joy of the game ... I found the other side a man somewhere in the world, which is like the soul that wear it ... and I enjoyed in both, that are three or four months old, sleeping with the book beside me, has a deserved place on the nightstand on the right side because the left side is too far .... I ashamed that no longer seems new tabs is highlighted as if it were war, but Ilona me smile in a way, like we know and we played hide-and-seek one day no one knew ... If I had the grace and skill of handling words, if I had the power to find a man to listen to my fears, joys and tears, were found two identity cards, two voices speaking the same words, with the same tears you cry alone ... I never found greater similarity of thoughts, the feelings, lives, of hopes than with being behind this book, being that I never met but who changed my life and its meaning ... Are days when the tremor of fear despair, days of joy wince, but with hope ... and then pass more easily over all and get back to my book, which gives me strength, give me courage, give me cheerfully and color. And I feel that there is a soul somewhere twin to the one I wear it ....

Well how boring is it to be around someone who always agrees with you? Isn't it much more interesting to get another point of view. Of course there is the thrill of being right, or able to say I told you so. You can't do that with people who totally agree with you.

sometimes it works, sometimes not. but i rather not use that reason. they say ron and hermione are perfect for each other because opposite attracts. if opposite attracts, then why not draco and hermione? whatever. anyway i think why people falls for a his/her opposite is because that other person fulfills what's missing in the life of the other. that's why opposite attracts. but i don't like it (for harry potter reasons). :D

well i suppose if someone loved themselves things wouldn't be very interesting and couples would just get along and be bored if they were exactly like their partners, it is healthier to have different interests or everything would be boring. the thought of something different and new is more exciting :)