how can i get a lover and where

Honey, love is not something one goes and to get; it is something that finds you. You are 21, so I know I may sound like an old hag, but it is true. Best to find the right kind of Love, instead of love for all the wrong reasons. I am in my early forties and when I tell you I have the love of my life, it's true. A wonderful man who is dear and sweet. I would've never imagined love existed this way, but he has proven to me that Love is real. So you wait, find new interest and try new places for entertainment. YOu will see, that love could be waiting for you, even at your next grocery trip. Good luck to you, and remember you must love yourself first before anyone can love you back.