be a parent
By adivane
@adivane (4)
United States
May 30, 2010 3:19pm CST
well what can i say a have 4 year with my wife i want her to have a baby we being talking and talking but am scared...... what if its to hard? what do you think? what does it feal to be a first parent?........ please answer......i need help and opinions!!!!!!!!!!
3 responses
@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
30 May 10
I think it is normal to be alittle scared. It is a big change. Like the fear of the unknown too. It would be good to talk to all types of people and get their opinions. And remember that fear, anxiety and such could cause you not get pregnant. Make sure you are both totally ready. It is alot of responsibility.
@rosie230 (1703)
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30 May 10
Well when i became a first time parent, i actually was a single parent, and it was hard, but with intuition and also the help of family members i got through it... i also had another baby last year and i have to say it actually is easier 2nd time around... you will be fine, just remember that help is always at hand either from health care providers and your family. the main thing is enjoy it!
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
31 May 10
i'm not a parent nor a wife yet but i have friends who are already parents. it's normal to be afraid of having a first child because you may be afraid if you can be able to give his needs and if you can raise him well but my friends feel more excited that scared. they are excited to see their baby and to take care of an angel. i hope you'll be happy too.
