what would you do?
By Rosie
@rosie230 (1703)
May 30, 2010 3:54pm CST
Ok so i text my boyfriend and he has not replies like for a couple of hours... i am sure that he is in the pub probably but it is annoying me anyway... so should i text him and make it a bit stroppy so he knows that I am annoyed... shall i just go to bed and forget about it, or shall i just text a random message and see if i get a reply this time.... what would you do?
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5 responses
@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
30 May 10
No! Men that know you are going to be texting them don't need to text you back. Why? Cause they know they have ya. If you surprise him and he doesn't hear from you for awhile then he will begin to wonder (if he cares for you) and then he will persue you. Let the man do the persuing. Find something to occupy yourself with and let him wonder about you for a change.
@rosie230 (1703)
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31 May 10
Thanks... its nice to know how men feel about getting texts, and knowing that we will text them... i guess it is something that I have always done. You are right though, perhaps i should let him do the pursuing for a change instead of me always being the one to text first.
@alinka (184)
• Greece
30 May 10
Well I know one thing.....sometimes a small issue can become a big deal.But my oppinion is that you should go ahead and not pay attention to this incident for two reasons:he might see it as an indifferent attitude from your side(showing that you dont care it hurts) and the second on is that you should consume your energy by thinking of this to much.....just go on and see how the things develop farther. :D I found my self on this kind of situation and didn't care(ok,pretended to not care),just to see his reaction(weather for him this situation is normal or he understands something is wrong)....Peace
@rosie230 (1703)
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31 May 10
well i went to bed (did not text him) and did receive a text from him... he had been at the pub and was now home, i phoned him and we had a small conversation before i went to sleep... I feel a lot better now... and anyway it is a new day, so hopefully the sun will be out, and I can enjoy my day. Its just hard not living with my boyfriend and i get very frustrated with him being out enjoying him self with mates. But thanks for your advice!
@HADDOWZ (1469)
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30 May 10
I would'nt bother texting again, why should you. Just get on and enjoy your day, cook YOURself something nice, go out and enjoy yourself, anything. If your boyfriend complains then just explain that you did try texting him to see if he wanted anything to eat or to join you going out, etc.
He cant complain, and he may not ignore your next text message.
Stay cool, and chill out.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
30 May 10
I would not text him again. I would go ahead and just go to bed or do whatever you want to do. Let him be the one to come to you. If you continue to text he will feel you are nagging which is a turn off for most men anyway. I wouldn't even bring up the text that you sent him once he get in touch with you. Just act normal and happy to hear or see him. That is it.
@LotRowena (158)
• Philippines
30 May 10
I think that you should just leave a message saying that you did texted him and that he did not replied. Whatever is his reason why he wasn't able to text you back, just make it appear like you're not affected at all or you're not annoyed at all. Think you must understand his nature of being "men". Like children, Men I think needs the reverse psychology. Be patient but don't embrace things just when you know and feel it is no longer needed.
