What do men want from their woman
By staylor7506
@staylor7506 (45)
United States
May 30, 2010 4:45pm CST
I wanna know what you mean expect from your girlfriends/Wives. i wanna know what you feel we have to do to make you happy. What are your needs and wants? How can we make you happier in the lives we have binded together?
3 responses
@thogojames (161)
• United States
1 Jun 10
speaking from a man's perspective,a man wants a woman who will stand by them and who will be willing to share there lives with them.women who will give you advice on your problems, appreciate you for who you are and not for who they think you should be. accepts you for all your flaws and love you anyway. if you are such a woman, you will definately find a man who would do anything for you..
@staylor7506 (45)
• United States
1 Jun 10
That's just it. I am a woman like that. I over look the little things and try to talk it out about the big things. I am an honest person, who does stand by there man. I'm loyal and very devoted. I guess if you had to put me in a category for the animal i best represent, your best bet would be the Dog. No offence to myself, but I am a one man woman. i don't feel cheating is ok, and I don't feel that dishonoring you other half is right either.
@safirpurim (252)
• United States
20 Jun 10
yes, but you should never overlook nothing in a relationship. that is how females have been married for 10 or 20 years and have been staying with a homosexual man! love is conscious...it is not blind as they say. lust is blind because it overlooks the little things, but love may only be blind because it sees all flaws but strives to correct them..so it may be blind to flaws of another because of this. but devotion alone does not make the best relationship because one could be devoted to a cheater. even if you may not cheat, the relationship is still spoiled if the other cheats...because the other who cheats shows that the close bond of joining bodies means nothing to them as they invite another into their bed, where they lay. it is not necessarily about dishonoring your other half...rather it is about honoring yourself. there are always signs about someone and it would do you well to pay attention to all the signs of a person. and never think just because you are devotional and loyal to your partner...that they are such to you. it doesnt mean they arent...but there is much infidelity in this generation..and it is a sad thing to see so many females clinging to their men while their men are out cheating with strange women whom they meet for only one night..and then bring all that filth home to their women. i see such things so often! i wish females were smarter and not so emotional...then they would notice such things, and get rid of the fool whom they hold so dear. because it seems, many have married their enemies.
@safirpurim (252)
• United States
20 Jun 10
myself, being from the wild world of black american streets, i know my woman has to be strong! she must be strong in heart, body, soul mind and spirit! there is much evil in the world, and females are like the main targets of males since the beginning of time! if the female is too weak to stand up for herself even against evil guys who are strong..i know she would fall for them out of fear..i dont want such a girl. she must be athletic, and able to think for herself, not only bookwise, but experience wise also. that she is gentle yet strong, so that like myself we can assist all who can use our assistance. i hope for her to be versed in wisdom, knowledge, understanding and discernment and most of all for her to look to the most high god, as i do. i hope she is the color of love, and compassionate but a tough female who doesnt just fall on the ground or cry or get all emotional over the smallest things! who is composed, and honest like me. who is willing to work with me in all things as i am willing to work with her.
and dont get me wrong! i strive to be all that i can be even now so that when i do get to meet such a woman, i am what i feel a female would hope for in a male. at least a female who is not just materialistic and emotional like many females. i ask myself often, am i sitting properly? do i speak properly? am i honestly presentable? (because i dont conform to social conventions..i think for myself with my own mind) in all things, i strive to be as great as i can. i dont even lust after other females in my mind, nor do i seek to get to know a female i dont already know, lest they become a decoy and i miss the chance at real love!
@saikrishna1234 (39)
• India
6 Jun 10
Hi,
Men Need Love From Women And Easy To Understand His Inner Feelings & Having Faith On Him.Every Men & Women Needs To Have A Good Understanding Each Other In There Life,To Have A Beautiful & Lovely Life That Can Never Comes Under Anything.