Is affection online acceptable?

hi juanjuanlevin! have you personally met this guy already? if not, we really cannot tell if he's for real or not. it is easy to make things up if you're just talking to each other online, or maybe in texts. i personally don't approve of online relationships because i've known a lot of unfortunate stories behind these. it's better to have a relationship with a person whom you and you're parents have known personally. i mean, you spend time together, constant communication. in that way, you'll be exploring each other's real attitude and behavior. but it's up to you if you want to continue with the relationship. as you've said, you're old enough to marry. my best advice is to go to where your heart truly belongs. if you really love him, then go for it. :)

true love is such a beautiful thing. time nor distance can shatter it. still, there are certain elements all females should take into account in dealing with males....because males have a thing called "game" in which they say all the things that will please the female to get closer to her. females are typically more materialistic and emotional...which makes them easy targets! few guys are ever sincere. i am not saying this guy is not! but most often, when a guy tells a female what she wants to hear, and treats her how she wants to be treated, she will fall for him, but he may not have the feelings a female would suggest or hope he has, it may just be typical male protocol in order to get in closer than he should..if you know what i mean. however, being at a distance, you must share your hearts with one another, and so the expression of the heart comes out and it is indeed better when two people can express themselves with one another. but being in person with someone can be a different experience altogether, and you must take into account how many are not what they appear. still..there is always hope and never stop hoping..because maybe the heavens smile on you and sends love your way. i suggest....calling out to love...the greatest love and ask love to assist you for a true and real loving relationship...the author of love is always listening, and of course....loves love! you just may have found the beautiful treasure so many have searched for but never find!

You really have to be careful with this one... You really have to get to know him better much more than you already do... Take your time, meet up somewhere if you could, personal friendship should be well-established first before considering marriage. Anyway I think you'll only know in time if you two are meant for each other, that is, if you survive this challenge. Only you can decide on what to do with this relationship - whether to break up or not. You two should talk about all the problems you experience. Good luck.

well for me yes maybe it's just unusual to be accompany by an "internet guy" or someone you don't know,a total stranger i guess you can't control something that is occurring,just like feelings falling for someone you don't know is not a crime so i guess it's acceptable you just have to face certain issues and accept the fact that you really don't know him you'll be on the process of getting to know you phase feelings are feelings you can't change it

Have you seen each other in really world? I think you should meet him first, not only through the net. Then talk with him about your problem. In the case like yours, there must be one of you two make sacrifices. Best wish to you and your love.

get someone near you, LDRs have low chance of success, CMIIW

hi, don t worry. your problem is only on places. it is not a big problem. i think you know very well about him. both of you understand with each other. if a person has good character , the place is not a problem. if you get married a man near to your town, we don t know about his character. and he may not allow you to go your home. better you accept your online friend if it is true love. ALL THE BEST.