Finding love when you have kids
By rocko5150
@rocko5150 (62)
United States
May 31, 2010 1:59am CST
Ive been on dating sites and i never have had any luck finding someone who is willing to put it on the line and try a relationship with someone with kids. What so you think let me know please. am i wasting my time? what are some good ways to find a guy?
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6 responses
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
31 May 10
Well for one thing, don't look for love in the wrong places. I definitely think that dating sites are not really a good place to find someone. You can't see the person and most probably he's there to just have fun with some single-mother who is desperate - no pun intended.
I think it would be better if you went out and just hang out with friends. Find good activities that would enable you to meet someone. Like going in the park. Joining jogging events with the kids. More likely, you'd find someone there with kids who is also unattached with someone, or could recommend you to their friends as well.
But you definitely need to be presentable first. You shouldn't look too desperate to find someone.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
31 May 10
actually guys who loves to play is not just in dating site but in every where, whether online or not specially if they found out that the girl already have kids thinking that girls are so desperate to find partner in life for the kids sake. so theres really no excuse of where and how. what matter is to just ignore those guy who just love to play and keep on looking those who are also serious and matured enough to think about life. theres so many way on ho to figure out if th eguy is really serious or not or if the guy have respect to you or not, whether online or not once the guy insist of making love that soon then forget about it. in online if the guy is insisting to show your body or anything about you then forget him, as if the guy is really serious he will try to know you better inside and out than knowing your body and the size of your whatever parts of the body.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
31 May 10
don't be in a hurry for finding the right person, they will come along. may be even when u least expect it. i'm with one adult site, and i've found some nice guys on it. i think i may even have in my profile that my son comes first, along with my horses. so any guy i get with has to put up with that.
i wouldn't want any guys localy is my thing, cause i'd have known them for a number of yrs. but i have chatted to a few blokes who are single with kids (kids don't always live with them) and it can be great just to talk about things, and let things go from there.
i'm not in a hurry, i want some time out for me and my son before i get involved again.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
31 May 10
dont just give up, theres billions of men out there so im sure you can still find guy for you, theres too many guys who got married to girls with kids and girls who got married to a guy ho also have kids, maybe its not your time yet. just have patience and you will find one. it takes time before someone realize your worth.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
31 May 10
Just meet someone personally. Don't try to look for partners at dating sites. You're wasting your time there. Arrange a date with someone and meet up.
that you love them very much and that you are looking for a person who understand your situation 