Do you choose to response according to Gender?

Sweetie, for me it makes no difference. I respond to those i want to irritate or those who need some help or advice. Sometimes i have to guess whether they are male or female. Nasty. TATA.

Hi, Jotomy. It does not matter to me. I will respond to any gender's discussion. I have no particular preference.

Gender, age, location, whether a user has been here a long time or has just arrived all make no difference at all to whether I respond or not. I am interested in the topic and if I find that I can participate in it then I do. The only thing that influences me is whether a user comes back and comments. Those that do get my preference over those who do not

Hi Jotomy, The only criteria if at all I follow is to look up friends discussions first.Other than that I like to respond to those who have responded to my discussions.Then of course there are my topics of interest and I would like to pick some discussions from those as well, also a couple of discussions from the no response category- so here gender just doesnt fit in - all the best and happy mylotting

no i never look at the gender of the person whom i am responding. i dont think many will look that. it the topic which matters not the gender of the person who posted it. happy mylotting

I respond to discussion when i felt that I have something to share and I can sense that I have valuable input in a certain topic that is being discussed. It doesn't matter if it is from male or female's post as long as it is something that you can impart knowledge and gaining information as well. We must avoid exclusivity i guess, which means that women should respond to female's post only and same as male's. If this happens, we are becoming bias and just narrowing down our information to a certain gender's perspective and opinion. We're avoiding the chance of getting more information as we can and that way we'll be able to observe how men and women reacts or give their opinion to a single topic and see the differences :D

usually i don't

Hi jotomy, for me when I respond to discussions I look at the kind of topic, I have never looked at the gender.

i respond to discussions based upon the content of the discussion and if i feel that my knowledge or view will help the discussion started, it has nothing to do with gender.

I really don't care what the gender is, as if the discussion is interesting, then I will respond. That is my basis for responding, and also I respond to my friends discussions too, and there again, it doesn't mattter what the gender is. I never pay attention to the gender, and I probably won't either, as that is immaterial to me. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

not me.. i am not choosing the gender, if we are friend here in mylot.. i choose to response some discussion posted because i want it., and i like their discusion., and i want to with them.. i my goal here in my lot is to share one's ideas to other and gathered also there opinion towards mine..that it..

Gender is not a factor to me, as far as discussions go.. my response will be added simply on the basis that I feel I can give some advice or information to that chosen topic, besides here you do not always know as to whether you are replying to a male or female, but as I said it is not something that plays a part in my discussions or replies.

hmmmmm I think you already know the most of the answer but still.... See I'm a male and hardwired to be attracted to females so no one can deny that part and this logic do influence sometimes our decision(s) but but but sometimes I don't even look who has started the discussion as it sometimes I repeat sometimes depends on the topic as well....eg I don't know whether Jotomy is a guy or gal name but here the topic I found catchy so replied....

no...i think it is only the response that matters and not gender i never see what the gender is and sometimes by name you cannot decide the gender....so it's only the topic to which i respond and not gender..

I choose to respond to a discussion if I feel I can have something of value or interest to add to the discussion. It doesn't matter if the person is male or female and most of the time I would not know from the user-name anyway. _Derek