curiosity dude?

@adequee (204)
Malaysia
May 31, 2010 2:39pm CST
falling in love and breaking the relationship...its common and its hurt...how deep is our relationship?can you really trust you partner when he/she is far away?.. do we curious about what is in his/her phone?in what date they are making?..if he/she go for a date-game,dinner,outstation job,church outing and something that need you to separate for a moment a night a day or two,will you be so curious or you will trust 100% and never question?
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12 responses
• India
31 May 10
i can understand your feelings dude ..there was a time in my life too when i thought i had fallen in love. I always wanted to be with my girl all the time never wanted to leave her alone man. But i knew that i could trust this person and even was sure that she wouldn't break my heart. But when i proposed to her she said no. She told me she wasn't ready but we are just best friends now. Part of my heart tells me that i should trust her but my other part tells to forget her. I can't do either one.Shes my first love and i can never forget her.Then i realized something. Wherever she is i always want her to be happy and that's what i believe true love is. I can completely trust her decision for i have been with her so long and i know what kind of a person she is and how she can take decisions and i am confident that she will always be happy and make others around her happy also.
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@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
1 Jun 10
Wow, so sweet. I guess I never fell in love that deep so what you are telling here is kind of sweet story for me. I wish you happiness, too.
• United States
31 May 10
You and so many people are trying too hard. I say this because dating should be fun, it shouldn't be so serious, and you should just get to know the person that you are with. It shouldn't be a chore or something that you dread. Best place to have a first date is usually at a coffee shop or a hamburger joint. Casual, again, just getting to know the person, and then if you really like the person, and find out what places they like to hang out at, then go to places that the two of you like. Agree on a place.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
In love or in a relationship,trust is one of the best foundation to make it last. Without trust,any relationship will not stay long. When there is trust,one will never think any wrong to his/her partner even if one of them is far,or they have a long distance love affair. But,being jealous is a normal situation in every relationship. And having bad thinking cannot be avoided too. Falling in love and breaking a relationship is worth trying for. At least you can tell yourself that you have fallen in love and lost. Rather than losing someone you love without giving it a try.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Jun 10
I have full trust right now and I've had full trust for my husband since the day that the two of us started dating. Before we met in person he was more honest with me than anyone that I've ever known and that is the reason that I knew that I would be able to trust him. I know that there is no way that he is going to cheat on me and I also know that he doesn't have eyes for anyone else in the world except for me. I'm happy that our relationship is as secure as it is.
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@dav20b (507)
• United States
1 Jun 10
well its hard to have any good relationship if their is no trust and every one needs some space and me time.since you would not like it if your girlfriend followed you every were you went like a puppy all the time.
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@debdut75 (65)
• India
1 Jun 10
Yes curiosity is sometime term as the mother of all invention. And curiosity about love is always a great way.
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@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
It's an ordinary feeling when you think what is your partner is doing and who are they with. Are they with some friends...neighbors or family? But then that's what communication is all about. You can text and call using your cellphone to ask the where about of our love ones. As for me I am the trusting one. I can sense something is wrong if the time will come she is doing something fishy behind my back. I don't want my partner to check on me 24/7 because that would be irritating and a plain sign of losing trust. I just want some space to breath.
@med889 (5941)
1 Jun 10
Curiosity can lead to suspicions and as far as we love someone truly we cannot be suspicious all along the way however if the love is long distance then I would say there are chances that the other might not respect the rules of the relationship so in these cases curiosity is bound to occur.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
31 May 10
I trust my girlfriend 100%. We've been through a lot of hard times together. I just let her do what she wants. After all she always tell me where she's going even though I didn't ask her. Trust is a must in every relationship. Without it the relationship will likely end.
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
well its really hard to trust my girlfriend since she already break my trust in her, but I still hoping she will learn her lesson and accept all the consequences in what she did to me.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
1 Jun 10
I am a jealous type. Yes, I would be curious to know where he is now, with whom, who he calls, what conversations, everything. That's why I was not good with long distance relationship. After being together fr sometimes, I normally can tell when my partner starts to keep something from me. I like to be told where is he going with whom, what for and until what time. Even though he has to go with a girl friend, as long as the reason is clear and he told me before hand, I tried to understand.
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I hear you, and I believe that no one should enter into a relationship without trust. You have to be secure with one another in order for love to grow otherwise your relationship will fail.