which one u choose Friend Or Relation?

I partly Disagree with Your View . True Friends are always the Best when it comes to trust and relationship. Friendship is about evolving and helping out each other , whatever may be the cause. Friends have no intimidations , when it comes to helping or be it anything but whereas a family Relationship is not. I see that you are from India , where the traditions and culture has evolved through family relations and you cannot separate yourself from the family tree just by a whisker . There might be some rotten fruits in the tree , but it is not right to point out that the whole tree is rotten ,just by seeing few of the rotten things. Go by your conscience. Give respect to elders of your family where it is due. But at the same time , just do not bow to their whims and fancies , when you think what they do is not right. There might be people in you family who accepts you without any conditions and try developing a stronger relationship with them . All Iam trying to say is that FRIENDSHIP is always TRUE and LOYAL , but donot exclude your Family Relations on the whole. You do need your family at critical situations , especially if you live in a society and culture like India has. i would go with both ... I have had my fair share of naysayers within the family , but there are people who i can trust upon and who could give a shoulder within my family . Friends give a whole different meaning to the Relationship , its just that it has no restrictions whereas a Family has.

There is always a way to have both of them around us, we have to choose friends to make sure they will never be a problem to a relationship we will have and we have to make sure also that our partner understand our friendship with other people so I am quite lucky because my boyfriend understands my friendship with my friends and thus I do not have to choose between them.