Parting is such a sweet sorrow...

As the saying goes, "Time heals all wounds." Just think that that person is not meant for you and you should be happy for you are free again to love. At least learn from your mistake and move on with life.

animemisa, I just do not see the point of continuing a relationship when it is not a relationship anymore. Blame it on incompatibility conscious or sub-conscious, circumstances or whatever but when it is time to go separate ways, then we just need to walk, for the better good of both parties. Like the magic of 2 rubber bands joined together, once the magic is over for both bands to be separated. So, rather than trying to reattached the rubber bands without magic, it will just be drastically damaging where it is a foregone conclusion that it will break into pieces and loose the whole entity on both. Sure there will be that unwillingness, heartbreaks and Kleenex tissue sessions but something better will come out of it. Many have and what's one or two more with another recovering couple. In conclusion, I just find the words of Helen Keller nothing but most apt: "When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." So, I hope people who remember to look for the other door in life and move on.

I think in a relationship it is always better to make everything clear enough before any misunderstanding occurs like such. So I will tell him directly and I will also tell him that the decision is very practical and maybe we can just be very good friends.

wel, i been on that situation before. i dont beleive that he dont want to live anymore. its just there style so u wont live him and beleive that he is really madly inlove with u. char. for me, telling the truth is the most important. and be brave for urself. i know it wil be a hard moment for him if u let him know what u really feel, but its the best.

Friend my suggestion is very simple but the question is very complex. For every one is necessary to leave some one for few days or for life time that is nothing but LIFE. Before knowing him you lived on this earth only right, and you had good moments and good days in your life, same thing you should feel in future that you will be having more happiness in your life. If its necessary to leave him or dump him means you don't have any choice just talk with him directly rather hiding the truth from him. If you hide it will pain you life long or you and he both will suffer life long. One saying is there "Your Silent kills not only you but also your loved one(Means he)". Think about it carefully and then take a decision of your own.

That is truly a difficult situation to be in. It's hard to let go of someone you're not sure you're happy with anymore. Sometimes, letting go is still the best option. But if you decide to let go or dump your partner, you have to be a 110% sure or else, you might regret it eventually. The best way is to have a serious talk with the person, tell everything you want to say first then after wards, let him do the talking. Break it to him gently. Tell him in a nice way whatever it is you're feeling and answer his questions honestly and profoundly if possible. Just be courageous enough to deal with the situation and its consequences if ever.